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Okay, so as a female AMWF lover, I have to respond to this post I found on a forum called yellow world (found while googling AMWF - I look it up at least once a week because I want some porn like that >_>). It's from an Asian man with really low self-esteem, and...well, this might cheer him up, but it's also brutally honest from me. And yes, I've taken to speaking for all female AMxF lovers. But I'm really not. So...here we go!
As an Asian guy, nothing scares me off more than an Asiaphilic non-Asian girl.
Well shit, I'm sorry. But as an "Asiaphillic non-Asian girl" (this guy would call me this for sure), nothing turns me off more than an Asian man who's scared by me, so there we go.
Given the widespread online whining of Asian males, there's a surprising number of Asiaphiles in the non-Asian female community. Not an overwhelming number, but still a sizable amount.
Okay, and that's why there's like, three active forums available for us. So many (sarcasm).
Anyway, a range of thoughts and fears run through my mind when a potentially Asiaphilic girl starts being a little too friendly to me, such as:
1) What kind of preconceived notions does she have about me?
That you're really fucking hot. That's it. Nothing else at all. Really. We like your body.
2) Does she think that Asian guys are really easy because we're all so desperate and pathetic?
That's your own preconceived notions coming in. We just think you're hot. If you're easy, all the better for us, since we think you're hot and want to bang you.
3) Would she like me if I weren't Asian?
Your body? Maybe not. Your personality? Well, if you have a good one, one that clicks with us, we still would. But we probably wouldn't have banged you in the first place. We're physically attracted to Asian men after all.
4) Just why exactly did she choose to dedicate all her attentions to a small minority population?
Because those physical features on a person are hot. Personally, I cannot stand hairy men, so most Asian guys are not that hairy. Everyone will have a different reason, so just ask and you shall find out. If they give you some bullshit about how "Oh, all Asian men are so traditional and respect their parents", then you probably want to get the fuck out, as there are many men from all ethnicities that respect their parents and whatever. I'm emphasizing that Non-Asian women liking Asian men is a purely physical thing, and has nothing to do with personality at all.
5) Oh great, I'm being overtly racialized when I want to get past this whole race thing.
Well hot damn, you're the one asking about all this racial junk. If you don't want to be "overtly racialized", then find a woman who is attracted to whatever body type you have or something, not one who is attracted to a typical Asian body feature.
But you know, most AMWF porn focuses on the lady, so it's not too good for me. We need some AMWF porn that focuses on the man, right ladies!!?! And to all the AM, not every lady that approaches you is an "Asiaphillic", okay! If they are, you should be able to spot it right away. Like me for instance. I love anime and manga, listen to Asian music, have Japanese username...obviously I'm not for the Asian guy that's "white-acting". But if you're an Asian nerd, hit me up!
And yes, I have finally gotten 100% comfortable with the fact I am attracted to Asian men. It was really awkward for me at first, since I thought something was "wrong", that I was a "Japanophile" etc., but now, I do have those qualities, and I'm sure there is someone out there who will match me!!
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