Below are the 11 most recent journal entries recorded in yuyu's Blurty:

Tuesday, August 2nd, 2011
2:53 pm	Decor painting and photo to painting photo to painting Decor painting oil paintings handmade oil painting (Comment on this)
Monday, December 13th, 2010
11:02 am	How to understand the situation of children's intelligence Intelligence is not a single ability, which includes: cognitive ability, understanding, imagination, problem-solving abilities, is a comprehensive human capacity. Despite the wide range of intellectual content are complex, but still is a human attribute, is the investigation can be measured, which is intelligence test. A psychologist is called in France than in Chennai, he is a doctor, as early as 1905, to Simon and his collaborators developed a scale of intelligence tests, said Binaiximeng scale. French educational application of this scale measured the mental retardation in children. Later spread to the United States this scale, a professor at Stanford University by the amendments, known as the Stanford-Binet scale one, the world's most one of the standard intelligence test scale. Another most standard intelligence tests is the Wechsler Intelligence Scale test. So intelligence tests can predict a child's intelligence? If the child's living conditions and educational status, there is no significant change in the intellectual level of the individual is relatively stable. Psychologists believe that children aged 7-8 measured intelligence level, and their future intelligence of a great relationship. If you simply check measured the level of the child's intelligence, but for parents is to increase the added joy and worry unnecessarily. Should be recognized that intelligence is only reflecting the situation of children's intelligence level of children's academic quality and intellectual factors in addition to a large extent also with the non-intellectual factors, such as learning motivation, learning, etc., can affect the interest children's learning, so children's future also depends on whether the development of hard study, or only good intelligence would not have good grades, it will not become useful. (Comment on this)
11:01 am	Educational experience: learn to sense and self-control Of one's own emotions and feelings, often very sensitive, and can clearly express their feelings. However, some people speculated that other people are also good feelings, control their emotions, know how to control his feelings too strong, such as anger, such people are called self-control ability. They generally have a high "EQ." We all know that emotional intelligence is very important. Children with high EQ tend to be happy to go to school, love life, get along with peers. Such cute kids, to society will also be both ways, because they know how to cooperate with others in the team, few words and actions out of control, when the end is difficult. The researchers believe that, with high emotional intelligence, life is half the battle. No parents do not want their children to have high emotional intelligence, but many parents did not realize that the ability to control feelings and emotions, you need the first five years after the birth of a child to begin developing. Teach your baby feel the emotion, the simplest method is "parent-child simultaneous feelings" - you know the baby is thinking, what feelings generated at the same time to find a way to tell the child how you feel. Synchronization experience you and your baby is produced. Synchronization of you and your baby feel like a looking glass - a reflection of your thoughts and feelings of the baby. At this time, you are helping your baby to establish a link brain cells to help the baby's brain development from a relatively complete emotional experience and thinking. And that is what we called "emotional intelligence" part. (Comment on this)
11:00 am	How to teaching the baby under 1 year old? 0 ~ 1 year old baby on the wisdom of education available from the following aspects: (1) to provide visual stimulation. Parents can stick around in the baby cradle some simple pictures, and changed frequently. You can also get a small bed of bright paint some fences, or buy some white or light railing, cut into small pieces with a felt products, color advertisement in paper decorate, and then a small bed enclosed. (2) to provide auditory stimulation. Baby's hearing well, parents often best to talk to him, humming. Voice, tone, rhythm transformation is the transfer restless wonderful way baby (3) to provide dynamic stimulation. Parents should constantly changing the baby in the bed, chair, encouraged him to active position on the torso, arms and legs. (4) broaden our horizons. Do not always let the baby stay in the cradle, the baby may wish to use portable carts or carry a baby walking harness, which can broaden his horizons, so he has more opportunities to reach people around, but also to promote their mental, physical, such as interpersonal communication and emotional development. (Comment on this)
10:55 am	The best method for promoting the baby vocalise When a child has five or six months in the womb can hear outside sounds, making music that is the physiological basis of prenatal education. After birth, the mother will find carefully hear the track when the child will show the way to listen quietly. This shows that the child will not only listen, but also heard the music of memory. In view of the above characteristics, life can give a child to listen to some beautiful, soft music, while listening to music while doing massage; while listening to music with the rhythm of the music gently shaking the body, allowing the arms of children experience the rhythm of music; while listening to music and children face to face "dialogue." These are all listening exercises, is a prelude to exercise voice. 2 to 3 months baby has entered the language, spontaneous sound stage. When adults looked at the child friendly, gentle manner and his talk, a smile with the "a" "o", to be heard and the child "dialogue" with the voice to induce a good mood the child is necessary. 2 to 3 months, even though children can not imitate adult speech, but he will see adults talking, listening to adults speak. He saw the adults in the lip, face, listening to the tone and sound, which are accumulated over the preparation for future learning to talk. In addition to adults and children with a sound audible to amuse the children, but also can be bright, moving, it will sound sound baby toys to tantalize. When children have a good time, it will not help to issue "a, a" sound. At this time, you must send the same voice with which to answer, and to encourage him in time, say "awesome baby", kiss him and let him know you are very pleased that he will sound. In outdoor activities, parents will be around to care for their children the language of things. See the puppy, and told him it was a puppy, dog will bark; see the neighbors little sister, and told him it was my sister, my sister wore a red dress; see the street car told him it was cars, it is called Didi. In short, parents should see what to say, let him continue to strengthen through the language of your understanding of the world around him. (Comment on this)
10:54 am	Baby education is a comprehensive art Has Ru brother, member of the National Family Education Resource Team, the first study of family education in Yunnan and the first monograph published in family education scholars. Kun Yuan, Yunnan Normal University professor, created the first universities in Yunnan, "Family Education" course. Has Ru brother, Kun Yuan and his wife on the education front, "I hope that rises from here - the art of teaching children" is their fourth co-published monograph of the family education. Recently, the reporter interviewed a "hope rises from here - education, children's art" is one author of the famous family education expert Professor Zeng Rudi. Reporter: This book is a comprehensive and systematic manner in addition family education about the basic principles of the new period, there are new theories and new highlights of what? Prof: The book not only introduce the psychological education, intelligence and non-intellectual factors, the family's aesthetic, as well as children of different ages Focus, but also put forward some new ideas. Such as: proposed several parents should set the right ideas. One person, only under the guidance of the right ideas, it may have the correct behavior and achieve positive results. The same is true of children's education. I'm in the book, family education to get good results, parents must first establish a "talent" first learn to be taught the correct view; children who are growing the right view of children; personality between parents and children are equal on the right view of parent-child relationship; rely on scientific education to teach the child the child's outlook on science. This monograph in the previous tutor talked about is not concentrated. (Comment on this)
10:51 am	How to deal with the baby's bad behavior Baby's progress is rapid, unconsciously, that swagger, at the mercy of the "villain children" already have their own idea, and day by day to show the world their capabilities. However, some unpleasant behavior also have signs of: Baby's language skills have developed greatly under the guidance of the parents of the patient, the baby has mastered a number of polite language, such as "Thank you, Hello, Goodbye" and so on. However, the baby will say one or two curse words out. 1. Parents have to behave his first speech, clean home language environment, not the family the opportunity to imitate the baby. 2. Neglected the last. When the baby first to say that those words, the parents on the one hand find it ridiculous, exasperating the other hand, feel that the first reaction is "how do you learn to curse?" "Do not say that again!", See their baby word will cause parents to such a big effect, think this is a "magic" words to keep repeating, repeating and causing the parents to stop, which will strengthen the baby's curse inadvertently. Conversely, if parents do not agree with the baby not be strengthened, forgotten after a few days. Lying, often considered to be an unforgivable mistake adults, is the moral problem, in the nearly 3-year-olds, this is a special phenomenon, said the baby often irrelevant if things do not affect children. If the baby said: "Our family has a dog" (actually not), parents need to understand that the baby is his hope that the actual situation into the other, that he wanted a puppy. At this time, remember not to children with the baby contests: "Nonsense, we did not have dogs." Puppy can describe the way your baby, learn the calls of the dog, play with the dog and baby-related games, baby There is a pleasant mood. Parents also can talk about these later, to tell the baby: "we did not have dogs, so and so home with the dog." You can see the puppy with a baby, according to the circumstances appropriate to meet the requirements of the baby, your baby gradually to distinguish between imaginary and reality. (Comment on this)
10:50 am	For communication, love is the best channel Raising children than a lot of old ideas and practices, over the years more people are advocating "more communication with their children." The parents may have time now to communicate the mood of communication, with content to communicate it, the dialogue between parents and their children more, affable, and willing to be friends of the. According to a survey conducted a few years ago, the relationship between parents and children show the trend of more and more harmonious. However, this generation of parents, but grew up in the reform and opening up the first generation of parents. We who also inherited the previous generation or even two generations of parents, many of the concepts and methods of discipline. In fact, parents do not necessarily born a master of communication, anytime, anywhere to stay healthy is not necessarily a happy mood, not necessarily to make sure everything can be accurately judged so ... ... Therefore, every communication does not necessarily have a positive, positive results. Moreover, our every communication can not be divorced from the environment outside the family gives us the infinite variables. Therefore, communication is not a so-called model of success, not to "bag cure-all" panacea. To face their own inner feelings. In communication with the child before you ask yourself: how about my emotional state? Today, I encountered something bad happened? These things are resolved it? Acknowledge their own imperfections. Asking the child to achieve one hundred percent, think about, doing everything he is not so perfect? Many of their growing influence is not perfect is not working and living now? Even their own growth. Observed daily changes in the time of the child to see if he is not still growing? If you're stagnant, do not surprised that she can not read the child's heart. A separate space for each person. Both need to communicate between people, also need to be alone. Children, too. External communication will be supported, but meditation can give birth to internal forces. (Comment on this)
10:49 am	Chatter can also hurt the children Often hear parents complain about: children do not toe the line, one thing about it several times would not listen to; talk much, they complain that their children sick. In fact, parents should start nagging himself find out why. Every parents are high hopes for their children, in order to achieve the goals set ears from time to time in the children told, reminded. However, this approach often has little effect or even counterproductive, so that children have a tired feeling, but also easy to hurt their self-confidence and self-esteem. Some parents eyes are always staring at the child's weaknesses, they talk about shortcomings, not to mention progress. In fact, the vast majority of children have been able to distinguish between right and wrong, but the lack of consciousness and the will to correct shortcomings. If the parents are always nagging to reprove the child's weaknesses, lessons learned repeatedly to children, they will see this as a no-confidence, and even rebellious. If a child has been living in this nagging environment, it is difficult to grow up to form a good personality. So not only can not achieve the purpose of nagging, but also bring harm to the children. First, we must be guided by patience. Guide is different from the nagging: nagging often contain blame, criticism of the taste, the monotony of a repeated stimulation; and guidance is friendly, concise, and it can inspire children to think independently, to help them deal with the problem, so that children emotional stability and feel happy. Parents from the provisions of the wise child should not do, what not to do, but let the child do it. If you do not do well, will analyze the reasons for him patiently, encouraging him not to lose heart, do our best. Second, learn to respect the child is critical. Healthy growth of children self-esteem is an important psychological factor, if the self-harm, they will have psychological disorders, such as psychological feelings of inferiority and confrontation. Therefore, parents should always pay attention to protecting and nurturing children's self-esteem. In life, pay attention to the child's progress bit by bit, time to be recognized and encouraged. The child's shortcomings and mistakes to be tolerant, to give children the opportunity to speak and to defend themselves. Even the criticism, words are not appropriate. (Comment on this)
10:47 am	Parents bosom is also the baby's classroom A small baby's family, life always seems to be inexplicable crying and rice were spent splashing around, but do not underestimate the change diapers, juice, pushing the baby carriage strolling such things, because it is during this process , you make him know the world, my mother, he and many important reasons. 1. I know I can always trust you! Every time you use delicious lunch, warm embrace and a dry diaper, the baby cry from the ongoing rescue and comfort in time of peace, you have to tell him, he is critical He can always rely on you. Even if this is similar to coax him to sleep every day events can also increase his confidence in you and their own sense of security. Slowly he will understand, even though he may not see you, but you always at his side. In his time of need, you will immediately appear in his eyes. 2. I know I can rely on their own sometimes! When your baby is crying in the middle of the night when suddenly, do not immediately rushed to his bedside to remind yourself you wait, then wait. Quiet child may recover quickly, because he to thumb sucking, or stumbled to find a comfortable position - after all, he fell asleep again. How? This simple to make him know he can take care of themselves and sometimes their own, and you also learned: Sometimes good parenting approach means less to do something, rather than better. This "wait" approach applied in many aspects, such as crawling enough toys in his motor function of such training activities, you can move the toy to tease him a little bit too far, citing his continued close. 3. I know I am the master balance! Walking around with a little guy, no matter in his arms or pushing with the stroller, can stimulate his vestibular system, which can train him to control the body balance. If you let him ride on your neck, he will get the brand new visual enjoyment - his vision is more open than usual. If your baby can sit up in a small cart to be pushed forward to walking on different roads, such as gravel board road, smooth road or the lawn, which can exercise the balance of his skills and his muscles strong keep the body upright. (Comment on this)
10:42 am	How to refuse unreasonable demands of the baby? Often such a scene occurred: people coming and going of the big shopping malls, there are children in the toy counter Lai crying, the side have lost parents in the face under the inevitably upset to "reward" a child a slap in mind; full house guests when the children are lying on the ground Sapo, with a house, apart from embarrassment, parents send their children dragged into a small room, closed the "closed" ... ... In fact, the children of these "rebellious" behavior is often formed under the influence of the surrounding environment: on the one hand, the era of material is greatly enriched not just the kids, even adults are difficult to suppress the desire to buy up to be stimulated; the other hand, doting parents also contributed to the child "to the wind was the wind, to rain the rain," the momentum, and finally, becoming only the situation as out of control. It seems, in order to establish the correct values among children, help children learn to control their desire to form opinions and habits of their choice, it is time to put away the prestige of the parents, "heartless" refuse the child's unreasonable demands, and specific to the approach, there Here are some suggestions: The face of children of different ages, different educational methods, of course, refused to have different moves. 0 to 2 years straight The age of the baby language function is not perfect, if the parents told him the truth, then more complex, the child may not understand. So this stage of the child refused to be taken experiential approach is straightforward. Such as direct child said "no" or to him shaking his head. When a child has dangerous move, for example, when playing get lighter, parents should immediately stop, and even a little bitterness to the baby to eat, such as canceling the afternoon of desserts such as a child. 2 ~ 4 year old child is in life, the first "resistance period." During this period, no longer as obedient children, and adults often "fighting for independence," rebellious full. On the child's unreasonable demands during this period, parents should be guided by appropriate means to avoid dealing with tough measures. (Comment on this)