monday I'd mention the idiots here in blurty who think I don't have a girlfriend but really, their blind thoughts are just that, blind thoughts from people who have a blind mentality. Let them think what they'd like because most are just jealous that a guy like me can have a very pretty girlfriend. Sucks to be them because they can't do better or don't have what it takes to do better than what they have(some don't have anyone in their life at all so it's always better to judge others than have to look at themselves, that's their easy "out" for them). If they choose to be ignorantly bliss to reality then hey, ignorance is something they're very good at being. Why stop them now since they're so good at it?
anyway, this weekend was cool. saturday afternoon Julie and I left my place and went back to her parent's place where she's staying in Milwaukee.I followed her on the bike and we always stop at the same rest stop on the way there. Usually we just walk, stretch our legs. This time well...um..er..um..well this time was "different". I'll just say that she decided she wanted to "fulfill a fantasy" on something I always wanted to do. well in a way she did. She showed me she has some "skills" in an area I hadn't experienced before(I did get her permission to say this here). all I'll say about it is WOW! some people like it in a shower, we decided to try a quiet spot way in the woods of a rest stop. wow....I think we're gonna be going to that area more often, lol.
I worked at her mother's restaraunt saturday and sunday. I did alot of prep work for her. she liked an idea I had picked up at acouple other restaraunts. the containers she used to hold sliced, diced tomatoes, peppers and onions were on their last leg, so I grabbed some metal pan containers she doesn't use that often and put them in there, then wrapped it in plastic wrap. it keeps them from going bad longer if you keep them in the cooler compared to the containers she was using. I even found a thing that looks like a pricing gun, set it up and dated the containers, which wasn't the case before. Sunday her mother and I worked together, she was making home made pies (her apple pie is f'n AWESOME by the way) and was making batters for pancakes and other stuff that I knew needed to be done (along with running the dish machine to keep that caught up). Maria has this habit of just asking questions out of nowhere. Well, she had quite a few for me and I guess my face turning red was obvious that I was trying to avoid answering her, lol. First question which came from who knows where was, her leaning in my ear and asking "so how do you like sleeping with my daughter"? I was like WHAT!? she kept it private between us but man, that's like the last question you expect your girlfriend's mother to ever ask. I hesitated and hesitated on it but I could tell she really wanted an answer. I finally did give her an answer and she said I'm going with the "good" daughter. Maria told me about Julie's older sister who I guess doesn't keep one steady boyfriend. I heard way more about that than i really wanted to hear but I guess I d have the "good" one, lol.
Her mom kept asking questions and after the 4th one I said "what is this, the spanish inquisition"? lol. She laughed and said "as long as you date my daughter the inquisition may never end". lol. She asked if I was ever in an inter-racial relationship before and I told her I was. (puerto rican, 2 black women one from brazil and now julie). Maria looked at me and then said "How does one go from a puerto rican to a mexican"? All I could say was "ya know, things happen to fall into place that way". Maria decided to pry further and try to have me compare me being with a puerto rican woman to being with a woman who's half mexican. I try so much not to make any kind of comparisons like that because every woman is different in their own ways. But I knew by the look in her face, that answer wasn't gonna settle with her. I explained that debbie and julie are very different in many ways so I can't say which one is better. for all that I've been thru with debbie I still remember many good things about her and that's what I go with. debbie is still good in many ways, so is julie. comparing a woman who's puerto rican french and german to one who's half mexican and half japanese is like comparing an apple to an orange.
Maria made me blush again by asking "was the puerto rican one better than my daughter in bed"? again..these are the questions you least expect from your girlfriend's mother. my face must've really turned red because maria dropped her pie crust in laughter. I bet it looked like it was as red as a stop sign. trying to find an answer to that one that was a balance, at that moment was kinda hard. Maria was pushing for an answer, I know there's really no "wrong" answers but, when you know who's asking, you have to try and find some sort of a balance. i said "give me a minute with this one". went and had a cig and really had to take a few deep breaths. I know maria was having fun at my expense with this and if this helped her day be a god oine I'm glad I was her entertainment center so to speak. Julie came back for a cig too and asked me what was going on. I told her and she laughed. "she does that with all guys who like me, she does that with every guy that likes my sister. She's taking it easy on you". it sure the fuck didn't feel like it, lol. after the cig I went back and had an answer. I said " debbie at one time granted me a wish and fulfilled what at one time was an ultimate fantasy for me. Debbie at that time did that like no other woman ever could. Julie now is fulfilling a different fantasy, the wish might be very much alike but Julie in her own way is doing what debbie at one time once did, neither is better, debbie enhanced my life alot and now julie continues to enhance my life".thankfully her mother accepted that one. she let me off the hook and said "we will talk about this again you know". ooohh boy...
saturday night julie and i were out til bar time. I wanted to walk by the lake with her so there we were, walking hand in hand by lake michigan. I sopped and just held her in my arms. I really like holding her in my arms, more than i admit. who knows where this is gonna go but right now, i'm just happy I'm thenone she wants to be with. I came home today and we'll probably meet up either wed or thursday night. then again, ya never know, she may decide to just show up. i won't complain, lol. I feel on top of the world with her. something i haven't felt with someone since i was with....well. for a long long time, let's leave it at that.
What the hell, I'll allow anonymous replies again. they'll just be screened as usual, any idiots will be deleted.
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