So I know I should be thankful for the offers but...it's awful to know that you will have to turn them down. One guy is the brother of the Junior girl at TC HS that she's been trying to hook me up with. I am attracted to him but when he called me he asked If I wanted to go to the bar with him and his friends, he just turned 24, and I heard him buy a pack of cigarettes. What ever happened to going on a date first? Now it's just, let's go to the bar. Smokey= nasty. And I think 24 is too old for me. I think that 22 is fine and 23 is pushing it so... Then i was talking to Kirk online and ...he has a child. A two year old daughter. And both of these guys don't KNOW me. They both saw me first. Then asked me out. Okay, any normal person would be like yeah, they are attracted to you, that's how it starts. But for me, it's a red flag. I feel like I need to put a sign on me. It would read "Girls who likes to have lots of fun, be goofy, spiritual, wants to go to church with significant other, virgin and waiting til marriage, has only drank once and really isn't into it, close with family, lives at home and still has a curfew" That way they don't get surprised. They know what they get. Then there would be a second sign that would read "Looking for: Fun goofy and intelligent guy, warm smile, Spiritual, close with family, doesn't drink a lot, waiting til marriage for sex, doesn't smoke, into athletics or possibly music, romantic, trustworthy, someone I can count on, loves themself but not too confident, handles things maturely, going to college or working, not judgemental, not racist, chivalrous" That would make everything easier. They know who I am then and what I am looking for.