Sex at 18 - To All those who advocated that EARLY MARRIAGE was wrong !! Sex at 18 - To All those who advocated that EARLY MARRIAGE was wrong !!
Upto 50 years ago, in most parts of India, Girls got married at about 17 ~ 18
Well some got married earlier, but 17 ~ 18 was sort of the MEDIAN (not average) but Median age of marriage
Then came the Nehruvists and the Leftists and the feminists and "you name it what ists"
They all yelled from rooftops that marrying women at the age of 17 ~ 18 was something close to sin
So the result is most women get married above 22 - the median might be close to 24 ~ 25 now [I do NOT exactly know]
However as per report below, women need sex, women [call them girls !1] HAVE sex from 18
So what happens to the period from 18 [when then need sex] TO 24 when then get married ??
As per report below
they have what is called sex outside marriage or sex before marriage !! They are having sex at 18. Many are having sex without a condom or any other protection..... and all this is Sex without consulting a gynecologist. Sex much before marriage.
Are these safe ? .. what happens to all those un wanted pregnancies..who pays the costs ... and what does this do the psychea of the woman ?
Well ..... god save the husband who is at the butts end of all the feminist laws GOD SAVE THE INDIAN FAMILY !! regards
vinayak
http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Repository/ml.asp?Ref=Q0FQLzIwMDcvMDEvMDYjQXIwMTQwMg==&Mode=HTML&Locale=english-skin-custom ] Publication:Times Of India Delhi; Date:Jan 6,
] 2007; Section:Times Nation;
]
] Page Number:14
]
] '58% girls have unprotected, unplanned sex'
]
] Sumati Yengkhom | TNN
]
] Kolkata: She is aged about 18 and dating. When
] the opportunity arises she and her boyfriend go
] to bed. Though the sexual encounter was
] pleasurable, reality dawns the next morning and
] hounds her till she gets her periods.
]
] The girl is one of 22,000 college-going
] students, who were part of a six-city survey
] carried out by Federation of Obstetrics and
] Gynaecological Society of India (FOGSI). ''I was
] dead scared,'' she said, recalling the horror of
] the next morning. ''What if I got pregnant? What
] made matters worse was that I could not talk
] about this to anybody, not even my mother.''
]
]
] FOGSI, in its survey - carried out in New Delhi,
] Mumbai, Bangalore, Hyderabad, Kolkata and
] Chennai, found that hers is not an isolated
] experience among sexually active girls. Its
] report, which will be released at the All India
] Congress of Obstetrics and Gynaecology in Kolkata
] in the first week of January, is certain to
] startle delegates.
]
] The findings - based on FOGSI's two-day 'Let's
] Talk' campaign among college girls - reveals that
] among sexually active girls, the first
] intercourse of some 58% is unplanned and hence
] unprotected. More than a third of the remaining
] 42% who plan their first sexual encounter do not
] use contraceptives, exposing themselves to
] unwanted pregnancy and a range of sexually-
] transmitted diseases (STDs).
]
] The report raises questions about the efficacy
] of efforts by government agencies in promoting
] safe sex. ''The findings prove that
] advertisements on safe sex have hardly made any
] impact,'' said Mandakini Parihar, chairperson of
] FOGSI's family welfare committee.
]
] Dr Basab Mukherjee said, ''This trend of high-
] risk sexual behaviour is alarming, especially
] because the young get only half-baked information
] through advertisements. This makes them all the
] more vulnerable to unwanted pregnancy and STDs.''
]
] Parihar said based on the report, it becomes
] essential that sex education should begin from
] school. ''They should be told about the human
] body, its development, puberty, menstruation and
] the like at the middle school level itself.
] Gradually, they should be taught the reproductive
] system. As they reach the age of 19, they need to
] be taught about sexuality, contraception and safe
] sex practices,'' said Parihar, who spearheaded
] 'Let's Talk'.
]
] The study also shows a majority of sexually-
] active girls shy away from consulting a
] gynaecologist, fearing their single status could
] lead to stigma. ''With malls and multiplexes, our
] society looks very modern. But when it comes to
] sex, it is still very conservative,'' says a
] sociologist Publication:Times Of India Delhi;
] Date:Jan 6, 2007; Section:Times Nation; Page
] Number:14
]
] '58% girls have unprotected, unplanned sex'