: help.
alright, so...this is kind of embarassing:
i've never been on top during sex, never.
it's because i really don't know how to, i suppose.
i mean, i just need advice, i guess.
i'm one of those people that analyzes everything way too much.
so obviously, i've analyzed being on top wayyyyyy too much. it's to the point where i've freaked myself out.
i told the boyfriend i have now that i'd be on top next time we had sex, so i will but i'm terrified.
i guess i just need someones advice, please.
or like, tell me something to make me not freak out about it.
here's basically what runs through my mind about it because i've analyzed it so much:
do i sit or do i lay? do i go up and down or front and back? how do i know when he wants it slower rather than faster? when do i know to stop? and more...
god, i feel so stupid, i know these are all silly stupid questions, but if you knew me, you'd understand why i have these questions. i just scare myself by thinkin too much.
PLEASE HELP.
i'll be on later today, i hope some of you can help.
oh and another thing is, he was a virgin before he met me, and i wasn't, so i just want it to be fantastic for him, yah know? so that's another thing that goes through my mind..because i don't like the thought of maybe him leavin me because i'm not good at sex or something.
alright, so...this is kind of embarassing:
i've never been on top during sex, never.
it's because i really don't know how to, i suppose.
i mean, i just need advice, i guess.
i'm one of those people that analyzes everything way too much.
so obviously, i've analyzed being on top wayyyyyy too much. it's to the point where i've freaked myself out.
i told the boyfriend i have now that i'd be on top next time we had sex, so i will but i'm terrified.
i guess i just need someones advice, please.
or like, tell me something to make me not freak out about it.
here's basically what runs through my mind about it because i've analyzed it so much:
do i sit or do i lay? do i go up and down or front and back? how do i know when he wants it slower rather than faster? when do i know to stop? and more...
god, i feel so stupid, i know these are all silly stupid questions, but if you knew me, you'd understand why i have these questions. i just scare myself by thinkin too much.
PLEASE HELP.
i'll be on later today, i hope some of you can help.
oh and another thing is, he was a virgin before he met me, and i wasn't, so i just want it to be fantastic for him, yah know? so that's another thing that goes through my mind..because i don't like the thought of maybe him leavin me because i'm not good at sex or something.