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Hairy subject... [27 Oct 2004|12:24pm] softshadow Hi people! I was wondering, with regards to hair o face, legs, arms etc - what do people do to keep it at bay? I shave, but I was wondering if there was a method of keeping it from growing like a cream that is a lot cheaper than the electrolysis or hormone therapies. They're far too expensive for me at the moment! Anyone got any ideas? Portia 10 comments|post comment

[27 May 2004|01:23am] cybergirl Hi there people. I am hoping this community is still ALIVE. It is really late right now and I must get to bed but my mind won't shut up. I came online to look up camping ground locations for my girlfriend and I and thought I would also do some research about gay and lesbian relationships. I am very happy in my relationship, however, there is and has been something that bothers me which maybe some of you more experienced lesbians can help me with... This is my first lesbian relationship (I had a somewhat one in highschool many years ago) but this one is FOR REAL. We have been together for 10 months and have lived together 2 months. I noticed that whenever we are in public, she acts as though we are nothing more than a couple of friends which in certain cases (IE, work or rough neck areas is fine) but it happens every time we go out. I told her last weekend I want to go on a date. I was hoping she would get the message but she didn't. I asked her last night why when we are in public that she does not kiss me, hug me or hold me or anything. She said because she doesn't like people staring and because people have been known to get killed for that sort of thing. I understand where she is coming from but at the same time, I want to be with someone that I can act like a couple with ALL the time, not just when we are alone or are in a "safe" environment (ie, a gay bar). I don't know if it is possible for a gay relationship to feel as open and real as a straight one but that's WHAT I DESIRE!!! Any input? 1 comment|post comment

[27 May 2004|01:23am] cybergirl Hi there people. I am hoping this community is still ALIVE. It is really late right now and I must get to bed but my mind won't shut up. I came online to look up camping ground locations for my girlfriend and I and thought I would also do some research about gay and lesbian relationships. I am very happy in my relationship, however, there is and has been something that bothers me which maybe some of you more experienced lesbians can help me with... This is my first lesbian relationship (I had a somewhat one in highschool many years ago) but this one is FOR REAL. We have been together for 10 months and have lived together 2 months. I noticed that whenever we are in public, she acts as though we are nothing more than a couple of friends which in certain cases (IE, work or rough neck areas is fine) but it happens every time we go out. I told her last weekend I want to go on a date. I was hoping she would get the message but she didn't. I asked her last night why when we are in public that she does not kiss me, hug me or hold me or anything. She said because she doesn't like people staring and because people have been known to get killed for that sort of thing. I understand where she is coming from but at the same time, I want to be with someone that I can act like a couple with ALL the time, not just when we are alone or are in a "safe" environment (ie, a gay bar). I don't know if it is possible for a gay relationship to feel as open and real as a straight one but that's WHAT I DESIRE!!! Any input? post comment

[27 May 2004|01:23am] cybergirl Hi there people. I am hoping this community is still ALIVE. It is really late right now and I must get to bed but my mind won't shut up. I came online to look up camping ground locations for my girlfriend and I and thought I would also do some research about gay and lesbian relationships. I am very happy in my relationship, however, there is and has been something that bothers me which maybe some of you more experienced lesbians can help me with... This is my first lesbian relationship (I had a somewhat one in highschool many years ago) but this one is FOR REAL. We have been together for 10 months and have lived together 2 months. I noticed that whenever we are in public, she acts as though we are nothing more than a couple of friends which in certain cases (IE, work or rough neck areas is fine) but it happens every time we go out. I told her last weekend I want to go on a date. I was hoping she would get the message but she didn't. I asked her last night why when we are in public that she does not kiss me, hug me or hold me or anything. She said because she doesn't like people staring and because people have been known to get killed for that sort of thing. I understand where she is coming from but at the same time, I want to be with someone that I can act like a couple with ALL the time, not just when we are alone or are in a "safe" environment (ie, a gay bar). I don't know if it is possible for a gay relationship to feel as open and real as a straight one but that's WHAT I DESIRE!!! Any input? post comment

[31 Mar 2004|06:04pm] cybergirl sorry guys. I just accidently entered the same thing twice. I thought it didn't go through the first time. My computer said "website not responding". oopsies. post comment

constant confusion [31 Mar 2004|06:02pm] cybergirl Hi guys, it's me again. We need more people. The entry before the one I made was only one page before this one. I made that entry over 8 months ago. I just wrote a blurp about my new found love. I don't know if I am IN LOVE but I definately love her. I am more like a guy in respect to my feelings in that...I have trouble knowing how I feel. Sorry guys, but for the most part it seems that is true for guys. This entry hopefully won't be quite as long. Here's the thing: Every once and a while I get curious about what sex would be like with a certain guy or girl I get to know. My girlfriend and I have talked about having threesomes and we are both open to the idea. However, we both think it might affect our relationship negatively if feelings got involved with the third person. I have been fascinated with polyamory for a few years(multiple relationships). I thought I could and would be in a polyamorous relationship with the girl I am with now. However, after having an open relationship for the first five months, the open thing wasn't working for us. Jealousy and questioning if and when the other person was out with someone else became a serious issue. I had two opportunities that came up for having outside sexual relations. One I took her up on and the other I didn't because as my gf and I became closer, we both became more protective. So now I am in the position where I am happy and don't wish to pursue anything else or anyone else but every once and a while my curiosity does sturr in terms of what others are like sexually. I think if I was attracted to more people than I am, perhaps I wouldn't question what type of girl or guy I like or even if I like guys at all. Basically, I don't wish to screw up what I have just to go on a mission to find out what sex with someone else is like and if I like guys or not. K, all that was confusing. I will just leave it at that. I am open to any thoughts or comments. post comment

constant confusion [31 Mar 2004|05:44pm] cybergirl Hi guys, it's me again. We need more people. The entry before the one I made was only one page before this one. I made that entry over 8 months ago. I just wrote a blurp about my new found love. I don't know if I am IN LOVE but I definately love her. I am more like a guy in respect to my feelings in that...I have trouble knowing how I feel. Sorry guys, but for the most part it seems that is true for guys. This entry hopefully won't be quite as long. Here's the thing: Every once and a while I get curious about what sex would be like with a certain guy or girl I get to know. My girlfriend and I have talked about having threesomes and we are both open to the idea. However, we both think it might affect our relationship negatively if feelings got involved with the third person. I have been fascinated with polyamory for a few years(multiple relationships). I thought I could and would be in a polyamorous relationship with the girl I am with now. However, after having an open relationship for the first five months, the open thing wasn't working for us. Jealousy and questioning if and when the other person was out with someone else became a serious issue. I had two opportunities that came up for having outside sexual relations. One I took her up on and the other I didn't because as my gf and I became closer, we both became more protective. So now I am in the position where I am happy and don't wish to pursue anything else or anyone else but every once and a while my curiosity does sturr in terms of what others are like sexually. I think if I was attracted to more people than I am, perhaps I wouldn't question what type of girl or guy I like or even if I like guys at all. Basically, I don't wish to screw up what I have just to go on a mission to find out what sex with someone else is like and if I like guys or not. K, all that was confusing. I will just leave it at that. I am open to any thoughts or comments. post comment

happy at last [31 Mar 2004|05:28pm] cybergirl hi there folks. I just responded to a girl in a similar situation as I am in...except that her deal is with a guy and mine is with a girl. Other than that, not much difference. I haven't been active in the blurty community for MANY months even though I know that journaling helps me sort my thoughts and feelings out. I am currently with a FANTASTIC GIRL! My last entry stated that I am looking for a girl. I found her. We've been together for 8 months and been living together for 1 month. I wanted to wait longer (I had cold feet) but she was eager to move out of where she was living and it made more sense for us to move in together. I admire her for many things. One of which is her assured knowing that she is 100 percent lesbian. For the first few months she thought I was a lesbian. I found out later she wouldn't have even dated me if she knew I liked guys. I finally told her one day while at dinner that I like guys too. She told me if that were the case, she would have to dump me. But then I guess since she was so into me, she made an exception to her own rule of not dating "bi" girls. I don't like being labelled as bi so I used quotations. So then somewhere along the way she got the idea that I am a lesbian. I made a passing comment to one of her friends that I think I might be a lesbian. I don't have enough experience with either sex to really know. I do know that I am extremely content with who I am with now and don't wish to screw up my relationship to find out what my preference is. However, I do sometimes wonder. In a conversation we had (the second time she thought I had decided I am a lesbian), she told me I had better figure things out pronto because she doesn't want a girl who chases after dick. I told her that she enriches my life so very much that I would not dream of leaving her for anyone and she doesn't have to worry. I hope that subsided her concerns. We haven't talked about it since and I am too nervous about it to mention it. Bisexual's have a bad wrap for being into the opposite sex primarily but then playing the same sex for just sex. She's been with bisexuals for sex before and so that's why she doesn't want to be with another one because she thinks all bi people are that way. I would have to agree with her for the most part but there are always exceptions. I am going to end this entry now and maybe do a separate one because it is getting quite long. I am glad to see this community is still active. smiles. post comment

[26 Mar 2004|05:01am] samantha_boyden

show your support [15 Feb 2004|12:53am] samantha_boyden [ mood | bored ]             Marriage is love. post comment

[04 Feb 2004|03:39pm] allineedislove Just wanted to make everyone aware of my pride shop on cafeshops.com http://www.cafeshops.com/gpdiversity Buy everything you could possibly imagine with this slogan on it: ( Read more... ) there are cheap shirts of every kind, lots of gifts, postcards to send to the president or your local state reps. Everything you need! All proceeds (which are a whopping 50 cents on each item) will be donated to millionformarriage.org I hope you purchase something! post comment

frustration [12 Jan 2004|01:26pm] thisishowitgoes [ mood | distressed ] [ music | AFI ~ Miseria Cantera ] Hey there Im yet another new member...im sarah, 18 years old and bisexual from the UK. I wondered if anyone is/was in the same situation as me.... as you know im only 18 years old but have had three serious relationships since the age of 13...one for 2 and a half years, one for just under a year and my current relationship which is nearly 4 months. I have kissed many girls, and been intimate with one, and know that im bisexual, not just curious. recently ive become attracted to very feminine guys, especially davey havok cos he really, really is HOT SEXXX. I also like very masculine men, very feminine girls, but ive never been out with any androgynous/feminine men or even girls either. My problem is...im in a totally committed and loving relationship, and am serious when i say i can see myself spending the rest of my life with this person. They are my everything, my other half. However, i get the urges that i want to have relationships with people of many different sexualities/genders as i wonder if maybe i could find myself being more happy or complete by exploring the other sides of my sexuality. Maybe im not ready for a serious relationship right now, but to suggest to my BF that i want to take a break to have relationships with other people will make him think that im not serious about him...that i want to forget about him. Fair enough, everyone has fantasies, but i just feel as though im ignoring a very powerful and important side of myself by denying these feelings and urges. maybe its simply because ive not spent much time being single, but i cannot lose the person i am with now, i just cant. i dont want to seem selfish by asking him to wait, aaarrgh i dont know im very confused. i can see myself being with him for all my life, but i can also see myself not being tied down to one particular person. Any help or ideas? anyone been through the same kindve thing? Any words of support or advice would be very useful right about now.... 1 comment|post comment

i'm new here [10 Jan 2004|01:53am] wolfchild16 Hi, I just joined and I just wanted to say hi to everyone. My name's Veronica and I'm a 19-year-old pansexual from New Jersey who's currently going to college in Pennsylvania. I'm a Bio-Female who has a wonderful girl/boi-friend named Danny. Oh yea, and everyone should go to the link that undisclosed put up in his post for the American Family Association's poll about gay marriage! Thanks, V post comment

Bonjour. [03 Jan 2004|12:06pm] breatheforme [ mood | tired ] [ music | Manic Street Preachers - Die in the Summertime ] Bonjour to all....I've been in this community for a while....but...haven't really posted anything. Gah...my sexuallity is definitley different...I just want someone to really care for me you know? And..I don't care who...just someone...that's why I believe I may be pansexual....but hey, I may be wrong..you never know. I'll try to post in here more often.... --Squishy post comment

amazed [22 Dec 2003|01:01am] akapolyhymnia [ mood | awake ] [ music | Kyler England:Distraction ] I am totally amazed that there's a pansexual community! I mean, amazed in a really kick ass way! I've been a pansexual for years and although I know what it is and some of my friends understand, the general concept seems too open minded for most. Anyhoo-cool beans. Chat with me! :) post comment

Um... [20 Dec 2003|07:13pm] happysunshine OKay I know I am bisexual, cuz I like guys and girls, but how would I know if I am pansexual? I have never seen or met anyone who wasn't a guy or girl...i dunno...I mean if I seen someone who looked like a guy and I found out they was a girl, I wouldn't care. Cuz looks don't matter to me, and stuff like that. 3 comments|post comment

Cross-posted like mad [18 Dec 2003|08:18pm] undisclosed Sincere appologies to everyone who sees this more than once. This is an issue I feel strongly about and so I'm posting it in as many places as I can find. The American Family Association, an organization that is outspoken against gay rights, is conducting an online poll on whether Americans favor or oppose the legalization of gay marriage. They intend to present the results to congress, presenting it as the view of the general population. Unfortunately, they're only publicizing the poll among their own members, who are not likely to reflect the views of the general public. Please join me by going to http://www.afa.net/petitions/marriagepoll.asp and sharing your view, whatever it may be. -Steve post comment

Hello. [30 Nov 2003|03:43am] ambiguous_hate [ mood | accomplished ] [ music | "Pet"-A Perfect Circle ] Hello all! How do you do? My name is Kate.[Call me what you wish] I feel like I'm at a support group or something ^_^;. But I guess that's what this journal is for and I support that. Anyway, I know I am pansexual because I do not look at a person in anyway of looks or anything like that. Gender has no issue to me, nor is it something to hold me back. I love boy's in drag and may I say, the icon of Mana is maybe the best thing to put up because as soon as I got into Malice Mizer I found out that these boys in drag and female clothing were the best thing I could find. I love girly boys that will wear nail polish and all. I know, many other's here with agree to that. I think supporting the cause of gay right mrriages is an important issue and it's good to see others willing to defend it! Anyone, and everyone should have a right to marry who ever they wish to. Another reason I really joined here is that I believe journals directed towards the bisexual are that of issues of most unimportant relations. It's ok to get support but not to think others can pick you up. I'm sorry if this gets anyone mad, I am a very open person and I will tell it as to how I think or really do feel. I just like to thank those that made the community and if you wish to get in touch it's ok, I don't snap at the lightest things Really. post comment

hello [28 Nov 2003|09:54am] azland [ mood | dorky ] hello all ,, how are you doin ? aim doin pretty good ,i found this place an thought it was awsome ,,i was for a long time thinkin i wouldnt fit in any where but from what ive read here it seems like i mgiht ahve found a place ,,well my names manda ,an iam 18 an ive allways know i was different ,,i mean growing up i use to ruff house with my cuzins the boy ones an was never in to the girlly stuff ,,,wellp i didnt think much of it til i was around 8 or so an i kissed another girl ,,just for the fun of it an to me it didnt seem wrong or right ,,any way as i got older an threw high school i was labled as gay ,,lesbian ,,ex becasue i could connect with any one i mena i had friends whom i thought i had a crush on but that was it an nothign more ,, i was allways just the "friend " but found my self as some of you describe drawn towards those who were different ,,in looks or sexuality,,just them ive never looked at a person as a lable or what lable they may go by but for themselves ,an just found the other side of the soposed right way to live more my stlye ,,i donno if this fits into beign pansexual ,,,or what it may fit into ,,any suggestions?? i mean if you go by the deffination of it of being a person who loves all then i guess thats me ,,i was never one to turn someone away ,becasue of theier sex ,seuality ,,perfreecence ,,you knwo all that ,,,so i donno is this the palce for me ? "surchign for a place of understanding ,,looking out form the looking glass wachign as the passersby never galnce around them ,,an being drawn to the darkness at hand " peace M 1 comment|post comment

Hello. [26 Nov 2003|11:37pm] arizuka [ mood | tired ] Hello. >_>;; Mrah. I think this community is a great idea. I'm glad it caught on from live journal since I don't use my LJ anymore. I...don't really have anything else to say aside from the fact that once again, I think this community is great. So... *cough* >_>;; post comment

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