||ordinary people-John legend
my home guild on gaia was terminated. it seems someone messed it up for the rest of us and it was just a matter of time before somebody saw it. i had no idea that it was going on, since it happened last night and i was sleep at the time..... damn. but it's ok, cause i started a RP guild today and i am so psyched about it. but even though i've moved on, i still miss my guild.
also, the last topic going on in the guild was premarital sex and here's my take
I politely asked the viewers of my post not to flame me on this topic, perhaps you haven't read the entire post. And yes, that IS a flame. You're "pointing the finger" over and over again, and it's really uncalled for.
I'm not going to argue back and start some flame war. You disagree with my views and I disagree with yours. I'll respect your opinion though, too bad you can't do the same.
It's also funny how people insist that every time a person with a stance differing from their own looks for a debate, they're flaming.
I've dealt with a lot of people on this topic lately and my patience is growing thin. I'm constantly told that since my body cannot physically carry a child, I should be abstinent for the rest of my life because, somehow, if I abort a fetus to save my own life, I'm "selfish" and "should have thought about that when I had sex". Yeah... just because I expressed love to someone I care deeply about, I deserve to put my own life at risk.
There is a reason that your post can be considered a flame. You're point the finger at me with "you pro-lifers this" and "you pro-lifers that". You could have easily approached the situation in a calm civilized manner.
I do, however, agree that if a persons life is in danger, that an abortion should be considered. But putting your wants before a future life upsets me.
Anyhow, if you patience is getting thin, I suggest you stop this and calm yourself down. This isn't making any of us any happier or anymore supportive.
you know, i've pondering this for ages.....i remember i used to go through this with my ex girlfriend....she used to get mad at me when i asked er 3 simple questions before we fooled around the first time
1. do you believe in safe sex?
2.do you have any STDs?
3. do you have any contraceptives?
of course i always kept a brand new condom in my wallet at all times, but that's not the point. at this point feel like this, most guys i know use premarital sex as a tool for popularity, and they always get mad at me when i begin to pity them and laugh....... because i have never tried to look at a woman that i'm going to be in a relationship with. though i joke about it, mind you, i never am serious about that. i too, mikashi have a nursery in my school, but the school turned it into a class called child development. and it just pisses me off to watch these guys leave these girls with kids and want to disappear everytime the girl says it's theirs. i mean, i just found out that my ex-girlfriend got knocked up and changed schools, so i don't talk to her anymore, the funny thing she already had kid already (not mine, mind you) before we hooked up. it's a damn shame
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I'm 16 years old, and I know in my heart that I've never ACTUALLY been in true love, and it probably won't happen anytime soon. I'm not going to let myself sleep with a man who I know I don't love, and I know won't love me in the future. There is too much of a chance that it won't last. Besdies, I want to save my virginity for my one true future love, my husband.
to truthfully admit it, i'm the type of guy who girls tend to walk over sometimes....i wear my heart on my sleeve, i'm 17 and i have truly fell in love only one time and i do mean love......... i pictured myself marrying this girl. though i had used protection and took all the precautions when we had sex, had i gotten this girl pregnant, i would have immediatly dropped all my elements of immaturity, and stepped up to the plate and took responsibility for consequences of my actions and convictions like a man. there would be nothing i wouldn't do for that girl or my child......i wouid walk through the bowels of hell and the apocalypse if it would that my child had a better chance at life......i now that this might be too grown for gaia, but i've seen too many guys walk out on their children and "baby's mama". i'm sorry if i've offended someone, but i'm not done yet.
"Life" is a very lose term. A cow is a "life", so we should all stop eating beef. A carrot is a "life", so we shouldn't eat fruits or vegetables. A deer is a "life", so we shouldn't hunt.
Well see, you probably won't accept my opinion to this either, since it's all in my christian beliefs. In Genesis, it says that man is superior to the animals, and animals can be used as food.
listen mika, this is my opinion. i know you think it's to get rid of an anti-sentient life before it's even given a fighting chance, and you may be right, but think about this: would you really want to bring a child into this world at its present state? overpopulation, terrorism, famine, natural disasters at their worst, senseless wars born of hereditary grudges. do you think any child has a chance here? if i could i would try not to give a child such a heavy cross to bare at birth. and you can't escape the fact that no matter what you do, people die. and they will because of fate and natural selection. but that's just my opinion, mika. don't take it heart as a flame......
i'm sorry guys. didn't meant to pour my heart through this keyboard like this......
i'm sorry if i've posted this twice, but my comp is buggin' up