Tuesday, July 5th, 2011
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8:34 pm
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人与人之间的关系真的很复杂
夫妻之间是否真的能持久？
两个不同性格的人真的能长久？
还是很多时候是act blur，闭一只眼才能过活？
既然会有人告诉我说只要他的丈夫能给她所需要的，她不会要求其他事。
只要她把所需要做的，做好，丈夫就不得过问。
我很纳闷。
如果这样，这是婚姻吗？
像交易多过婚姻啊。。。
夫妻久了，是否就真的会冷淡？
大家就只是为了一起生活而生活？
丈夫能够一意孤行，为全家做某某决定而无需向妻子询问，查询，讨论？
我很纳闷。
夫妇，不就应该大小事都一起讨论，一起做决定？
虽然丈夫是一家之主但妻子也是一分子啊。
婚姻不是应该互相尊重吗。。。
夫妻不是应该沟通吗？
妻子凡是不喜欢，不敢讲。讲了又要看对方脸色。
另一方面，妻子又一直为着无法改变的事实而耿耿于怀，无法释怀。
恶性循坏一直转一直转。。。
我很纳闷。
我真的很纳闷。
人与人之间的关系真的很复杂。
:`(
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Monday, July 4th, 2011
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1:18 am
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Tuesday, May 10th, 2011
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10:08 pm
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舆论自由
近期在网上读到的一些言语不仅让我觉得很感慨 - 开放言语到底是好是坏？
让我不仅惊讶，这么多人同时间的言论攻击，好像似乎是要对某人于死地。。。
所评论的语言，字字都不留余地，读了都让我觉得字字带着厌恨，厌恶。
这真的让我觉得很可怕。
我不想偏袒。很努力学习不判断因为圣经也曾提到说在我们判断人之前，先看看自己。
舆论自由，让我们大家能更容易得到多方面的信息但同时也很自然的带来了不同观点的言论。
健康与乐观的言论能让人鼓舞，让人建立信心。攻击性与悲观的言论能煽动能造成越来越多负面的影响。
所以圣经也说过我们应该多说鼓励的话。不是叫我们睁眼说瞎话而是如果某人真的尽力，做得好，不可忘记鼓励。
这样一来，世界会更美好。
我求，我愿，大家能对彼此更宽容些。
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Friday, April 8th, 2011
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12:07 am
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Friday, January 7th, 2011
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12:06 am
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Itchy Hands
well, im supposed to be doing my appraisal which is due....today (tat explains why im so hardwking..doing it at home) but got stuck at this 'my strength' .....i hate such questions.....wats my strength?
i shld hv kept my 2009's appraisal...so i could get some inspiration...
anyway, while im supposed to b doing my appraisal....i started going to my frens' blog.
and i realised a fren who has nt been updting her blog....entered one ytday...so my hands got itchy too..keke...
anyway, typin blogs take up quite alot of brain cells..
so i hv decided nt to use too much
so i shall end here. :D
bck to appraisal..
inspiration pls come..
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Tuesday, December 7th, 2010
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11:04 pm
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Work or no work????
this coming wkend.....i hv been on standby mode
for a moment, the schedule shows tat i need to work sat sun
then nxt moment, dnt need to
then again, need to
then again, dnt need to
then again, need to
then again, dnt need to
then again n again n again n again, need to, dnt need to
i've been making arrangement for praise grp again n again, again n again
make until i also paiseh
and again, the latest is i dnt need to go on sun...but tis is again subjected to changes
subjected to the material's arrival
urgh...
now i dnt wan to make anymore arrangement...
for the sake of 6622.......cheong ar..........
3 more wks to go.
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Tuesday, November 2nd, 2010
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10:49 pm
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cheong ar!!
my engine gonna die off v.soon but this two months muz cheong ar!!!
cheong not for my own pocket but for some other people's pocket.
our morale super low but for the sake of our own responsibility.....we will still cheong....for u all.
im really one who hates last minute ....but these few wks my wkends are reall at the planner's mercy...
the moment the schedule changes and theres production on sat...means i'll hv to work on wkend..$#%#$@& (btw, im someone who dnt scold vulgur..its juz my way to show anger).....even though i hv plans or appt for wkends, everything has to put aside. and so vvvv.often, i will only be informed on the wk itself.
really......for the sake of people's pocket, zhen de zuo de hen bu gan bu yuan.
and in the end, u all get more than wat we get.
wat is tis man...
ok. enough grumbling.
life still goes on.
things still hv to do.
can onli jiayou.
2 months only.
cheong ar!!!
current mood:  exhausted
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Monday, October 25th, 2010
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10:02 pm
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很久没有更新了
玩啊玩啊。。。那14天都玩完了。回来了。
geeezz...其实还蛮喜欢的。虽然出国前没做什么功课。。。去了那里有点懵懵懂懂的
但喜欢出国的写意。这里看看，那里看看。这里买买，那里买买。
那里的时尚。。。贵的吓人。ok, to be fair....在本地也是很贵，只是我从不接触而已。
真的有所谓高尚与普通。我，是道道地地的《贫民百姓》。
价值几十千，几十万的东西到处都是。
心里只能《哇。。。》
看了几天，几十千，几十万的东西变成《普通》价格而两三百，四五百变成《便宜》了
哇，这是洗脑的威力
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Sunday, September 19th, 2010
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10:55 pm
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Virtual Family
最近在玩一个游戏叫virtual families
能在游戏里结婚啦，生孩子啦。。。
因为玩的是免费的所以只能生一个孩子
玩着玩着。。。
里头本来只有一个人。。。
然后他就结婚。。。他们很开心
然后就有个女儿。。。他们很开心
然后工作升级。。。他们很开心
然后女儿长大。。。需要离家读书。。。家里有剩下他们两人
久了。。。女儿没回来。。。也不知他跑哪去了。。。
每天回家就会进入游戏看看status
每天他们的年龄越来越大
女儿还是没回来
每天就是工作，煮饭，打扫，睡觉。。。可能免费的游戏有限吧
但每天他们年纪越来越大
我就开始觉得这个游戏不好玩了。。。开始觉得这个游戏quite depressing
真的有一天，我最不想发生的事情发生了
里头的人物死掉了！
从那天起。。。我就把游戏删除了。
:(
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Thursday, September 16th, 2010
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12:42 am
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Frustrations
when a person doesnt makr noise, doesnt mean the person is not frustrated
问题就出在我不擅长表达
我不象一些人，说几句话，很多人会听到，会怕，会反应，帮他们改善
我也有frustrations...
Problem is when i reall show my frustrations...
Tat is when my threshold has reached
and when my threshold is reached...i tink i reall reached a point where i jz hope someone can understd me
but then again, sad to say whenever i jz wish someone can listen my frustrations
so very often i get "scolded" for being lik tat
sigh...谁来关心我
想要有人听都难
in the end, keep quiet might b the best way
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Wednesday, September 15th, 2010
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10:58 pm
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Tuesday, September 14th, 2010
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10:04 pm
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Friday, September 10th, 2010
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12:31 am
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i must be a big fan
i must reall be a big fan
knowing cqz is coming to town again for concert
and juz saw on the ticketing website tat the concert has started selling tickets
so my brain is '要买票。。。快点买票不然卖完’
but my fren is out of town...so i hve to suppress my eagerness...
and guess wat.
since knowing shes comin to town again
im startin to listen to her cds on e car and now in my room
before goin concert, muz do revision one. =)
i reall wish all my frens will go
go and listen to her concert, i tell u, shes good
and....u'll see me go crazy in the concert.
pple rarely see me go crazy one
the first time i went crazy was 2007 cqz concert.
sooooooooo many pple stood on the chair n sing with her, i did too ;)
and ever since, i told myself, i'll go to all her concerts if she come.
3 cheers to cheer!
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Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
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11:48 pm
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Neck problem
The problem came bcd ytday. So much so tat I got bad headache frm it
N reason for y tis ache came bck was bcos of carrying guitar for consecutive days
Jz carrying guitar can cos it to come bck? Then wat can I do?
For a moment it can real b quite depressing.
For a moment jz hope to stop the treatment once n for all since it seems ilk uncure-able
Oh well. Went n saw dr william n told him about it
Ache not totally gone but jz hope will be better
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11:48 pm
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Neck problem
The problem came bcd ytday. So much so tat I got bad headache frm it
N reason for y tis ache came bck was bcos of carrying guitar for consecutive days
Jz carrying guitar can cos it to come bck? Then wat can I do?
For a moment it can real b quite depressing.
For a moment jz hope to stop the treatment once n for all since it seems ilk uncure-able
Oh well. Went n saw dr william n told him about it
Ache not totally gone but jz hope will be better
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Friday, September 3rd, 2010
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10:07 pm
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Felt disappointed n angry
so much so that really cant lift myself to do anyting
angry with the limitation i hv
angry with the limitation of everyting
angry with the half-bake-ness
how could we tolerate tis n no one seems to tink tis is a problem?????
How could we went up when i hv fear n uneasiness??
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Thursday, August 26th, 2010
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11:23 pm
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Sweet Tooth
few days ago...i had sweet tooth for this particular brand of chocolate.
so much so tat i went to a supermart n bought a 5-snack-bar-pack
i was still telling myself 'aiyo..eat so much..but cannot ctrl leh..'
then ok...i tink i am sick since ytday
juz sneeze and sneeze and sore throat
luckily tis morning i dropped some salt in the throat. now the sore throat seems gone.
i guess salt reall helps..amazingly
oh ya, back to topic
and my sweet tooth is gone juz like tat..no craving at all
the 5 snack bars are still sittin in the fridge.
hoho...
i guess tats nature
when eat too much...ur body wil start tellin u...'hey, stop eating!'
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Thursday, August 19th, 2010
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11:51 pm
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I have alot of clocks
was jz tellin my fren tat i hv lots of clocks set in my handphone.
sin, tornto, hcm, aucklnd, jp, oslo
y so many clocks?
bcos some pple i knew r all over the world...
tornto - almost 12hrs behind
hcm - 1 hrs behnd
auckld - ard 4hrs ahead
jp - 1hrs ahead
oslo - 6hrs behind
....all diff timing ne
tis is so tat when i chat with them, i'll noe wat time zone they r at
tis fren im chattin w is now situated at oslo
when i started to chat w her jz now...i started with 'hv u lunch-ed?'
(it was lik 11+pm here...i tot shes at lunch time)
but aft awhile when i looked at my hp, i realised..shes actuall at 5+pm *duh*
opps.
tats why, i told her, its so impt to hv all these clocks on the phone
v.confusing ne
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Wednesday, August 11th, 2010
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12:17 am
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random
had a few tings to write
but i realised..to type all those u're tinking into words.....is v.tiring.
went to send off a fren. shes off to study. well, she was my poly classmate.
and she had juz graduate frm part-time degree course
now, off to study again
i dnt tink she's reall the v.study type of person (i mean..nt those academic, study non-stop person)
but i tink she wanted to hv a diff kinda life. to go overseas for another kind of experience.
all the best.
though no one will talk to me during work liao. sigh.
im nt close to her...i wont tell her my problems but whenever she n px meet, they'll always ask me out
when they talk to me, they also dnt talk to me lik strangers. they dnt talk to me so carefully like many others does. when they say me, they'll say directly. same for my side too. i dnt hv to talk so carefully like i do to many pple.
~viet~
tis time round, i tink im starting to lik viet.
been there quite a few times but everytime i juz follow ard..
tats the prob when there is language barrier
but tis time round, i tried to tak note of the places went, the address n stuff
tings start to b familiar...
tis place is developin v.fast
new buildings keep appearing
new shopping areas emerging
tings start to get more n more expensive
(but still...toilets r clean)
i guess it's tough to live there
high living expenses but yet salary nt tat high
but it's an interesting place
it's a whole mixture of 60s and new century life under one roof.
probably still under strong influence of the war...fighting hard to survive.
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Sunday, August 1st, 2010
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9:52 am
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不要再下雨了啦
希望今天半夜不要再下雨了。。。
每下一天我就多一夜没好觉
已经好几天半夜下大雨了
而我也每夜被大雨吵醒
有天是3点多，作日就5点多。。
而下的都是倾盆大雨。风很大，很吓人。
我又怕冷。
不要再下雨了啦。。
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