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Poster:anonymousmiss
Date:2008-03-16 18:13
Subject:Random question that's been worrying me
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Mood: sick

I'm new to Blurty so I don't really know what I'm doing. But anyway, I've been concerned about something for a while. It's a little embarrassing but here we go. Every girl cums or releases discharge daily but I think that I do a lot more than others. Is there something wrong with me? Or is there I way I can't prevent this? Please help.

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Poster:jan168301
Date:2005-09-02 11:22
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Every time that I ask anything about an exgirlfriend to my b/f he gets really angry. I don't understand why. Could he be hurting if he thinks about those memories or why is he so uncomfortable telling me???? What do you all think???

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Poster:liquid_thought
Date:2005-08-17 01:34
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Mood: worried
Music:Apocalyptica - One (cover of Metallica)

Hmm.. well this is a really awkward thing for a first question... But um.. yeah....
Sooo... I've been "on my period" for roughly three weeks. Give or take a couple days. Needless to say, this has me very worried. I have no idea what the hell is going on. I figure that it might have something to do with moving into a dorm with a bunch of girls while I was starting for this month. Maybe it screwed it up or something. *shrugs* I dunno. It started on time for the most part. My boyfriend and I had sex on the 30th and something in the back of my brain keeps telling me that I started either that night or the next morning... So yeah... I suppose the questions would be:
a) Has anyone had this happen before?
b) Does anyone know what the hell is going on?
c) How do I fix it?
Sorry for the long post. This is just kinda urgent to me.
Thanks in advance.
-Tiff

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Poster:jan168301
Date:2005-08-13 10:53
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How do I give a blow job? Im not very experienced and want some advice ... techniques or something. Thanks!!

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Poster:jan168301
Date:2005-08-06 12:47
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Is anal sex supposed to hurt a lot the first time? What if you bleed?

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Poster:secretdiary
Date:2005-08-03 11:09
Subject:Finding Friends and More
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Mood: horny

I am 49, almost 50 and my sexual feelings are going crazy. I want sex all the time. I'm even thinking or wanting to have sex with other men and women. Is it me going through the changes of life or what? Do other 40 to 50 year old women have this problem. I masturbate a lot, but I just want that feeling of touching and closeness with another person. My husband and I do have sex, but sometimes it is too little and too late for what my body is craving. Any ideas to get the ball rolling in the right direction, so that I feel that I have a balanced sex life.

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Poster:somewhatxgolden
Date:2005-04-14 18:33
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I joined because I have a quetion I have been wanting to ask. I know everyone comes in different shapes and sizes..so is it okay to have one libia bigger than the other?

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Poster:oh_my
Date:2005-03-07 23:14
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Music:Moe Jones-Without a Name

The other day I was touching my vagina as I do everyday and I felt something, then brushed my fingers over that spot again. It felt like a little bump. I looked in the mirror immediately and there is a little spot on the my vagina, that looks like a pimple.

Here is a diagram of where it is on me







Is it possible to get pimples down there? I haven't shaved in months and months so I doubt it's a shaving bump. And I am 100% sure it isn't an STD. I have been with the same guy for 2 years and we have had sex many a time and this has never happened. And both of us are faithful to each other, I would bet my life on it. It couldn't of been from another source.

It looks like a little white head...I never popped pipples on my face and I don't want to pop this one. It's all just kind of gross and puzzling.
I have told my boyfriend about it.


So I suppose my question is...do you have any idea what it could be if it isn't a pimple? How common are pimples in the crotch area?


Thank you!

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Poster:oh_my
Date:2005-01-31 23:12
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I got a PAP done today, how extrordinary. I asked my doctor about diaphrams, as a second form of birth control, on top of the pill, because condoms are not so fun anymore.
She said that I should be okay with just the pill (I am not worried about STDS as I have been this guy for two years and we've both been tested). She said of course I wouldn't be one hundred percent but I should be okay to not get pregnant with just the pill.

I trust my doctor, she's a great family doctor, but I am wondering about your experiences, or your suggestions.
Should I be okay for him to cum inside me with just the pill as protection, or should we withdraw? Or stick with condoms..or should I get a gyno appointment and be fitted for a diaphram?

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Poster:anchor
Date:2005-01-20 09:17
Subject:The Diva Cup!!
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There's a similar device called the "Keeper", but I couldn't find that on sale at the specialty store I went to. Instead, I found the Diva Cup.

If you haven't heard of it, it's a silicone cup shaped like a funnel or thimble. You insert it into the vagina during your period to catch menstrual blood, and you can empty it out as little as twice a day. It's safe for your body because it doesn't interfere with the natural balance of chemicals and bacteria in your vagina.

It was fairly expensive but I thought, "I can't wear tampons, they irritate me, and I hate pads, they stink and they're bulky". I also figured that I spend about $80-90 a year on pads and panty liners, so I may as well spend $50 and see if I can use it for a few months to make it pay for itself.

Well, I took it home and on the first night of my period I inserted it and left it in overnight. The next morning, I noticed something wonderful: No leaking! That was great and all, but I also found that the cup had shifted inside of me and I couldn't get a good grasp on it to pull it out. I tried the best I could, but because of the suction it creates inside the vaginal canal, I really could not pull it out.

So, I went to the doctor and was a bit embarrassed by her behaviour...maybe I should report her? Anyways now that the humiliation is over (she did manage to pull it out but I'll spare you the gory details), I really want to keep using this thing because it worked so well. I thought it was confortable and I like the fact that it only has to be taken out, washed and replaced twice a day! I just don't want to get it stuck again.

I called the hotline and was told I must have put it in at a bad angle (I think they're right, the doctor even said it was in almost sideways). I may also need the other size they have available.

So here's my question, have any of you heard of this? My doctor's never heard of it, hence the behaviour on her part.
Has anyone ever used one? What do you think of it?

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Poster:wifeywannabe
Date:2005-01-05 10:55
Subject:
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Mood: embarrassed

RAHR!! Okay. I'll admit it. I queef when we do it doggie style.
WTF causes this?
How can I make it not happen?!

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Poster:flamencochica
Date:2004-12-17 11:58
Subject:please help.
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Mood: worried

i know i haven't updated on here for about a year... but I really need some advice.

my friend is admitting to me that she has decided to become bulimic. ive tried everythign i can to change her mind but nothign seems to work. can someone please tell me what to do? I'm so worried for her.

your thoughts would be greatly appreciated,
Lydia

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Poster:boycrazygrl747
Date:2004-12-03 12:52
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when i was in 7th grade, i played in the orchesta at my school. my mom sent me to take private lessons, hoping to improve my skill and desire to play the instrument. i live in a very safe town (one of the safest in the country), so walking the 5 or 6 blocks from my house to my teacher's was a breeze.

it was summer, and as usual, i was making the walk to my teacher's house in the early afternoon. a little over halfway there, a white van pulled up beside me, with a larger man driving. he had the passenger window down, and leaned toward it to ask me for directions. i thought for a few seconds and described where i thought he needed to go. i was kinda nervous, since i didn't want to give poor directions, and i had no idea who this man was. after telling him directions, i heard him mutter "you wanna suck my dick..." shocked and cofused, i said "what!?" and looked at him to notice that through his sweatpants, he was touching himself. he said "mmm... i wanna cum in your mouth..." with a perverted smile on his fat face. with a disgusted look, i started walking away, and the pedophile drove off.

as i walked to my lesson, i felt paralized. i was disgusted, upset, scared, nervous, furious... but the thought that overwhelmingly filled my head was "don't talk to strangers..." i mean, there easily could've been someone in the back of that van waiting for me to let my guard down so he could grab me, and they could raped and beat me. i could've just said "sorry, i don't know..." i was a young girl, he would've believed that. and as he drove off, why didn't i get his license plate number? i could've reported him or something... but why did i stop? why did i decide to be a good person and give him directions? why me?

it has taken me years to realize that i was blaming myself for this man sexually harassing me. HE was the pervert, HE was the pedophile, HE assulted ME. no, he didn't touch me. however, his words were enough to instill fear in me for a long time. whenever i would see a white van, my heart stopped. i was terrified that i would be walking alone and someone else would ask for directions. he also made me associate my anger and fear with my instrument, which i later quit.

so why didn't and haven't i ever told anyone this? it's not because of him anymore. our society socializes women to feel like sexual objects. just by leaving our homes, we are subject to being hit on, touched, harassed, and even worse. but with how common it is for us to be commented on by men, it becomes NORMALIZED to us. it, in fact, becomes strange when we go out and are not hit on or harassed: what, do i not look good today or something?

by that man saying sexual things to me, he "put me in my place." he exerted his masculinity over me to induce fear. did he get off on turning a 13 year old girl into a sex object? maybe. but his 10 seconds of sexual perversions were enough to make me fear vans, walking alone, and older men in general for a long time. but the most frusterating part is that i felt that, as a girl, i should've known better. instead of blaming him, i blamed myself, and was ashamed, embarrased, and scared to tell anyone about this.

i'm now taking a class on sexualities, and my professor told a story of how when she was similarly harassed when she was 14, but instead of comments, she had her ass pinched repeatedly. she was suddenly thrown from being a confident young woman into a helpless object. despite how insignificant an ass-pinching can be, i realized both of our seemingly-insignificant experiences are probably just a microscopic fraction of who else has been harassed and felt responsibility for it. since then, i've been grabbed, touched, and harassed for bing a woman, and i still find myself thinking "well, i guess these pant are kinda tight..." women repeatedly and subconsciously blame themselves for the harassment we take, and have come to accept some of it as normal. i'm writing this in hopes that some other women who have been sexually harassed, from comments to "harmless" touching to sexual abuse, will also have the ephipany that i have: no matter how insignificant you think your story is, it isn't. someone did something to you that made you feel like an object, induced fear, or made you accept blame for being harassed. it isn't fair, and i hope you know my heart goes out to each and every one of you.

together, we can overcome the fear and the blame. thanks for reading. :)

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Poster:onlymegan
Date:2004-12-02 16:12
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does anyone have suggestions on a product/vitamin/etc. that promotes faster hair growth? i just got a god awful haircut and am wishing for nothing more than for it to grow back. :( any ideas?

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Poster:onlymegan
Date:2004-12-01 14:42
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just wanted to give a quick hullo to all as i'm new to the community. megan, 21, from alabama...i guess that's it at the moment, but if i think of something great, i'll be back :)

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Poster:oh_my
Date:2004-11-26 01:51
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Can you please tell me where I can find a website based on BDSM education? Specfically toys.
I'm having trouble finding any good ones that don't try to sale you something two sentences in.

I'm really looking for the names of certain whips, looking for ones that are gentel, not welt leaving ones.
Then a short explaination on whats safe and whats not about the whip.

Thank you. and by the way...where have you all been? I miss your entries here,

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Poster:silvertree
Date:2004-11-16 20:56
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Hey, new around here, I am an Lj user, I really just keep my journal here for the sake of it, just taking a look around at different communities. Anyway, I’m Marie-Louise, a 21 year old menstrual activist from England.

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Poster:oh_my
Date:2004-10-21 00:21
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This is a little comic, it's hilarious, and we've all been there once!


Read more... )

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Poster:be_everything
Date:2004-10-17 16:57
Subject:masturbation
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do any of you ladies have any good techniques for clitoral masturbation?

-don't own a vibrating showerhead
-don't own a vibrator
-don't get off manually anymore
-don't get off under the faucet anymore

i need help! please comment

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Poster:oh_my
Date:2004-09-29 19:01
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In the beginning of July, my boyfriend and I tried anal sex for the first time.
He was able to get it in, and I didn't experience any pain, just a lot of pressure. After a few very soft thrusts, I asked him to stop because I didn't think it was lubricated enough, and we didn't have any astroglide with us.

Everything was fine, except about a 2 weeks ago I started bleeding whenever I had a bowel movement. It isn't a lot of blood, but enough to be worried about. I mean it is stressful to go poop now, because it hurts. I could pin point to you the exact spot that always causes me pain.

I am pretty sure there is something ripped within me, but was it caused by the sex? Why would it take a month for me to start bleeding?

Should I go to the doctor pretty much right now? What can or should I do? We haven't had anal sex since we tried the first time.

Thanks.

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