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[27 May 2008|08:05am] |
I love my fiance to death. He's my life, my world, my everything.
But, about a month and half ago I finally admitted that I had been faking an orgasm when
we had sex because I'm unable to come during intercourse.
Well ever since then, he's not been the same. He constantly calls me liar and when we argue he just runs off and won't even talk to me.. He acts like he doesn't care about me at all. I used to chase him but 2 nights ago I broke it off. I told him I was went and talked to an ex of mine to see if he would act like he cared, and he just started being mean, made me cry so I hung up on him. I seriously don't know if I should even try to salvage our relationship or not. HELP!
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[24 May 2008|04:32pm] |
Hello group!
I'm back again with a need for some advice. I've had manic-depression since I was 13 and have only been to one doctor and have been on countless medications. I quit going about 2 years ago and I'm still struggling to "keep myself afloat" so to speak. I've been having suicidal thoughts on and off since I was 13. I'm 18 now and they still come around. I've been thinking heavily about it for the past couple of weeks, with no intentions of following through with it I don't think, but I don't know if this is something that I should worry about or not. I've been through it before, and I've handled it, as you can very-well see. I've had no past suicide attempts, and the thoughts that I have now aren't even fully felt, if that makes sense. I don't know if I should just let this episode pass by or if suicidal thoughts are something to be concerned with despite the severity of it. If anyone can relate, please give me your feed-back and any suggestions you might have. Thank you guys so much!
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[08 May 2008|01:35am] |
Hello community,
I see that this place has been neglected for quite some time. If I could please have anyone's attention that is willing to give it. I'm having an issue sorting out my feelings about this guy that I'm seeing. He's been one of my close friends for the past 2 years, and we've been dating for the past 2 and a half months. I'm falling for him pretty fast it seems and I've caught myself on numerous occassions thinking to myself... that I love him. I don't know if this is an illogical thought. I fight with myself whenever the issue arises trying to see how illogical it really is. To describe in a few paragraphs how I see him, I've copied something from one of my previous journal entries:
"I like him so much, it just about drives me up a wall, thinking about the extent of my liking him and how rediculous it is. I think about him constantly, except for when I make a conscious effort to preoccupy myself with thoughts of something else. When I'm with him, all I want to do is hold him and kiss him and be alone with him and make him laugh. And it's through all of that that I feel so clingy and already so attached to him. When I walk away from where he's at, I miss him the moment that he's out of my sight. When he leaves and I can't see him I get frustrated and slightly annoyed for reasons that I have yet to figure out. I really don't know what it is that makes me feel the way that I do about him. I don't know if it's love or infatuation, or possibly both, possibly neither. All that I know is the passion that I feel from myself when I touch him. I always wonder if he can feel it the way that I do. It turns me completely upside down to the point where I don't even know what to do with myself. The only reasonable conclusion I've come up with as of yet, is that I'm falling for him. For a while it seemed illogical, and I almost had to force myself to see it, but what other reason could there be?"
My dilemma is understanding what it is I really feel for him. Could anyone give me just a vivid idea of what they sense from this? The time you'd take to do so would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much in advance!
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[16 Mar 2008|06:25pm] |
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I'm new to Blurty so I don't really know what I'm doing. But anyway, I've been concerned about something for a while. It's a little embarrassing but here we go. Every girl cums or releases discharge daily but I think that I do a lot more than others. Is there something wrong with me? Or is there I way I can't prevent this? Please help.
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[26 Sep 2007|08:12am] |
Hi. This is my first time posting to this community.
This is the second time i've posted this, because i really don't know what to do. (I've posted this in another community.)
I'm 18. I've realized that i was bisexual when i was about 14 or so. I've even had a few girlfriends and have done things with girls before.
I've come to the point in my life where i wasn't happy with girls anymore and i found a guy who really swept me off my feet. He's even proposed to me and we are planning to have children together. But some things have changed. Some things make me uneasy...
Every once in awhile he brings up how he wants to have a threesome with another girl and it really hurts me. I don't want to do that on account of my fears of our relationship being destroyed. He says that he'd only do it for my pleasure and not his; that he wouldn't even touch the other girl. It makes me uneasy and a little agitated to go though this with him. Every time we discuss this, i say that i don't feel comfortable with the idea, yet he still brings it up.
I'm not sure on how to tell him that this will never happen. I've even gone far enough as to tell him that if he wants to have a threesome with two girls, he can leave me and do so. Because i'm not going to do it. Yet he says he's not going to leave me for anything in the world. But he stills doesn't drop the idea.
I don't know what to do. I don't know how to show him that it's never going to happen; that he just needs to shut the fuck up about it. Because it makes me angry every time... I only want it to be me and him, not some other girl.
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[09 Sep 2007|01:49am] |
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HI EVERYONE! I HOPE EVERYONE IS DOING OK. I HOPE TO HEAR FROM EVERYONE SOON:-)
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[02 Sep 2007|06:09pm] |
If you have something you want to say,
without everyone knowing it's you.
Go to my journal :) I'll try my best to help.
lindsay.
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[22 Aug 2007|10:30pm] |
Hey guys,
I know this site isn't really a "pregnancy site"...but I really need some advice. I have some questions and concerns. I just found out that I was pregnant...I took two pregnancy tests & they both came out positive. I was having these cramps for awhile & tender breasts...I couldn't remember when I started my period last month ... I know its around this time...so I could've already missed it or it should be coming within 5 days. Anyways, is it normal to feel like you may start your period...because i'm kinda cramping, but thats not really concerning me. Or, are pregnancy tests ever wrong? I took two of them & they said they're 99% accurate. Jeez, I don't know. I'm just kinda scared. I'm only 17...i'll be 18 by the time I have the baby...my boyfriend & I have been together for 3 years & hes there for me...but my parents don't like him. How am I supposed to tell my parents ... because I know its for the best to tell them...but they're gonna go crazy? I need some advice.
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So, I haven't used blurty in awhile and I made a new account.
But, theres this guy and he was previously going out with one of my good friends i grew up with, and im really confused about him. becaause one second hes into me and then the next he acts like we're just friends.
what can I do or what can I say to him without making our situation uncomfortable.
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[01 Aug 2007|02:10am] |
How can really tell if someone likes you?
So basically, I went shopping with a friend of mine that i've had a thing for all summer. He's the gentleman type, but he offered to buy me something.. at least 20 or 40 bucks? Not a big deal, right? He's gotta lot of money just kinda lying around.. but I don't know.
He also referred to himself as my boyfriend at one point. I asked him about it and he just dismissed it, and I just guessed he was a little tense. I don't know if it just slipped out because he was extremely tired from work.
He's not the type I really trust to be completely honest. The kind of person to just be nice even though someone is kinda bothering them.
I am going to ask him about it, but It'd be nice to know what to expect, right? I've had bad experiences with guys, so I'm kind of afraid of getting played again. :[
thanks for your time
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[28 May 2007|12:05am] |
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Sorry i'm posting this in this community. But, I remember seeing a movie a long time ago and it was about BigFoot. I tried searching for it online, but couldn't find anything. I was actually wanting the title. It's about this family hitting the creature "BigFoot" and them keeping it at their house. It's a weirddd movie, but if you know what i'm talking about it would be great.
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[30 Apr 2007|05:55pm] |
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My mother has cancer. I want to give her a gift. A gift of being a grandmother again. What that means is I want to have a baby and have my b/f make it with me. I'm on the pill now but want to stop so I can do this. I don't know how he'd feel about this. How can I bring this up to hijm without him thinking I'm trying to "trap" him?
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[30 Apr 2007|06:48pm] |
So, honestly
what'd you say to someone who had someone REALLY close to them die?
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[02 Mar 2007|10:47pm] |
So first off, I'm new to the community. Hi.
I have a difficult situation that I can't exactly ask for help with family/friends.
To start it off- I was seeing a guy for 2 years.(we ended it about a month ago) Around our 3rd or 4th month of dating, I met a guy in a class of mine and totally hit it off. During that summer we hung out a lot, talked on the phone and I feel really hard for him. By the time summer was over, I had to basically choose who I wanted to be with, my current beau or the new guy. I ended up kind of choosing the current beau. About a month later the new guy got a girl and they've been together now, for about a year and a half.
Well Last February, We started to "hangout" again, basically we just hooked up. This went on like once a month/two months. He would tell me he had feelings for me, but then they would go away.
Well in January, it was once, twice maybe three times a week.. Near the end of January He told me that he had feelings for me and that there was just ME and his GIRLFRIEND and he felt bad for us both and what he was doing, and that he wanted to be friends and that he really thought about his feelings for me when we worked together/talked online.
The other night, he told me that he couldnt talk to me that much anymore, because he was getting strong feelings for me again and it wasnt right.
BUT he still constantly flirts with me at work, trying to be around me, texts me, play fights with me etc.
How can he have feelings for me for so long and not act upon them? If he really loved his girlfriend and they were 'strong' why did he keep coming to me? He told me I wasnt just a piece of ass and he kept telling me over and over again.
Is it true that, If a guy has a girlfriend, and a girl, he'll always choose the girlfriend over the girl?
i just dont understand. I need someones advice, whos been in this situation, or somewhat in.
anything?
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[27 Feb 2007|12:31pm] |
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okay, so me & my boyfriend have been together for 3 months and im ready to give him a hj but im scared ill hurt him or he wont like it. we arent raunchy or anything lol i just need some advice please.
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[25 Feb 2007|12:06am] |
If you cheat, or have ever cheated...
Would you come clean about it to your partner?
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[14 Feb 2007|12:16am] |
My ex "play flirts" with me, and a couple of my other friends. It's not just like.. "Oh hey you look really nice today!" because I don't think that's flirting. It's like, giving a lot of attention to one person, and basically hanging off them, and following them around like a puppy.
It really bothers me, because i guess, deep down I still have feelings for him. most of them have turned sour, but I get really jealous sometimes. And ooooh, do I have my reasons.
But, I brought it up with him that it bothered me, and he just said it's stupid. I wanna know what you guys think?
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[20 Jan 2007|11:38pm] |
heey im laila. i need advice
my boyfriend is my bestfriend and i love him and he loves me
but i have the hardest time trusting him
i know he would never ever do anything to hurt me cause
seriously he is NOT like other guys, he is the sweetest boy
but not to just me, to everyone .. he cantt be mean
i can be sucha bitch to him sometimess for NO reason
any advice to help me being able to trust him and how to like not get mad when i see him talkin to other girls
thankss
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[18 Jan 2007|11:44pm] |
Hey guys,
I really need some help. Do you know how long it takes adderall to get out of your system...like if you go for a drug test & your not prescribed. Please answer only if you really know for sure. Thanks.
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[30 Dec 2006|03:24am] |
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Anyone have any advice on how to figure out who your true friends are?
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