I need an analrapist.
I keep having these nightmares I'm getting married. I know, that sounds weird that they're nightmares, but seriously. They make me want to freak out.
A couple of months ago I had a dream I was marrying Tom's friend James. James was making the invitations and sending them out when I was like "oh crap, the invitations are sent out, I have to marry him now." In my dream I didn't even know him any better then I do now (minus the fact that he's married and has a kid). I don't remember if I got out of this one or not, but I REALLY wanted to.
Then last night I had a dream I was visiting the Portland State University campus with my friend (who, in real life, is going there to get her MSW in the fall), and I met this guy. I don't think it was even two weeks later and we were getting married. The day before, or maybe just a couple of hours before the wedding I said to my friend "is it too late to back out?" She assured me it wasn't, so rest assured I got the heck out of there.
Every time I have these dreams I get in panic mode...mostly during the dream, but sometimes it lasts even after I wake up. What is this supposed to mean? Besides the fact that I don't want to get married now. Anyone would panic if they had to marry someone they didn't know, so why do I need a dream to tell me this?
I feel like the runaway bride. It's so strange. Someone analyze it please.
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 whatwouldyousay
2007-06-02 23:18
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Hmmm....maybe it means that you feel too much pressure or are putting too much pressure on yourself to get married and are trying to make it happen instead of waiting for it to happen. In your dream you panic and when you realize "oh crap, i don't even want this person" it's almost (luckily not quite) too late.
Or maybe it's telling you to keep your standards high...that you don't have to be with someone unless you really love them and the fact that you're really looking is good and getting to know people is smart.
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whatwouldyousay
2007-06-03 15:02
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I have these dreams all the time where I am the age I am presently but my younger brothers or sisters are way younger. Rosie is usually about 3 and Katie is usually about 5. They are both always wearing the same outfits (outfits they had in real life too) but they always turn into nightmares. I always wake up with my heart pounding.
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