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Your Last Minute Friend
Have thinking lately about this question that has poped out of my head several months ago. I kept thinking about a very bad situatin where one couldn't imagine himself to be in that situation.
If ever you are caught up in a shameful, degrading situation, like you can't tell it to your parents because of shamefulness, who would be the person you would contact to ask for help?
Have you ever thought of your friends lately of how close are they to you? And how close you are to them. We kept thinking that we don't like fake people and friends but are your friends a good fair-weathered type?
I think you shouldnt wait for that situation.
When you are there in the police station and afraid you might get fired in your work because of what you did,
who would you call to for help?
I don't really force you to test your friends.
Im telling choose quality friends.
It's not how many friends you have in your friendster or in your Messenger,
but the real people that are close to you that would be there for you not because of who you wanna be, but because they are your friends because they love you just the way you are.
Take a second look if you are going to entrust a person about your life, maybe they can't handle it well. Remember it is really fragile!! You don't want to be around with people who makes funny jokes...about you (even if it's in front of your face- where's the respect)
I have experienced that and it hurt me much thinking I really trust them. What I did is I distanced myself from them. And you know what, they even notice the reason why I did that.
Friendship is also about compromising but not to the extend that you are the only person aggravated in the situation.
But think also that when a fisherman catches a fish, most of them are good ones. Just choose the best. And never let it go.
To all my friends. I trust you all.
We hold are destiny in our hands but clumsiness couldn't be avoided sometimes especially if we are depressed, in-love and alone. So better know your exit door in the building before it collapse.
In the same way, be faithful to your friends. Be open-minded everytime they want to open. Even if she/he is the most boring person in the world, listen to her/him. Otherwise ask yourself: why did you become friends to her/him?
Friendship is a relationship and so it can be complicated as it can really be. But if you put to your heart that person you trust, things will get easy between the both of you.
"Never close youlips to those to whom you have opened your heart"
- Charles Dickens
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