"he can say hes changed, that he loves us more than life itself, that hed do anything to fix what has happened... but words are useless... he never backs them up anyways"
I could not have said that any better. We are definitely going through the exact same thing. And I am so damn proud of us for staying true to ourselves. My ex is doing the same thing at this moment. He is promising me that things will be different the time, that he will make do everything he can to make this better if I give him another chance.. I told him to talk to the other girls he lied to me about, and feed them his bullshit because I'm over the lies..
Like I may not be over him but I am over the stress and the heartbreak he has caused me for the past year. And these guys need to realize that they fucked up and they don't deserve another chance. We deserve REAL men that treats us right ALL the time. And we can't settle for anything less than that. If we take them back, it just shows them that they are irresistable to us and can get away with anything and we will take them back.
Nope!! Stay strong sista... I'm here for you.. you are like my soul sister, no lie <3
UGHHH! Im so proud of you lovebug!!! We are soul sistas, its amazing how so much damage can wear on a heart, but also how it can bring so many girls together. I mean, I always felt so alone in what was going on with me and him just because nobody i know hows a relationship like mine and then i get on the internet and its totally relieving to know that their are others out there who feel my pain. Im truly thankful for that though, because although this situation sucks and we might bein it for a long time, we've made a friend out of it!
You are so right, im going to have to print this whole post out and keep it with me when Im in doubt. We are better than these stupid guys who cant see a good thing if it hit them in the face. I mean, we sit and write letters on the internet, who does that? THEY COULD NEVER GET SOMEONE WHO IS MORE IN LOVE WITH THEM THAN US. It takes a selected few to do that... and thats all of us.
I always keep you in my heart and remember that you are going through the same stupid crap as me.
