Katie-Lyn (shesjustagirl) wrote, @ 2004-03-08 08:03:00

~*To be or NOT to be*~
In life we experience infactuation, hate, love, friendship...but is it possible to mix these emotions and still survive it all??...Is it REALLY possible for crushes to become friends to become lovers to become enemies and eventually go back to being friends?? *

	pixistixs 2004-03-08 11:30 (link)
	I say no because look where me and Matt are. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Re: shesjustagirl 2004-03-09 08:35 (link)
	true. * (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

theycallmerude 2004-03-08 12:43 (link)

Sure it is I know people I used to be friends with that I hate now and people who I dated that I hate Some people that i dated that are just friends AND some people that have been love interests, enemies, and now we're friends and one person that has been a love interest, then an enemy, a friend, and now an enemy again I think it's a way of life although I'm not quite sure It seems to happen quite often to me (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Re: shesjustagirl 2004-03-09 08:29 (link)
	it is life...i totally agree...* (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	selfhealer 2004-03-08 14:55 (link)
	tough one! i guess it depends on how strong each emotion originally is. its easier to hate those u once loved, but then the emotion associated with friendship sometimes has the ability of finding its way through a maze of hate...go figure, i guess each emotional situation is independent. u could call it life. (Reply to this) (Thread)

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	Re: shesjustagirl 2004-03-09 08:25 (link)
	awwww...dont feel bad sweets...there are just some things that you can and cant control...but dont dwell on the past...i wuv ya lots!! * (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: shesjustagirl 2004-03-09 08:27 (link)
	yeah...life...* (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

claire0502 2004-03-08 15:46 (link)

Wow, Miss Carrie Sex and the City is at it again! Me n my ex, well he was a crush at first, then he was a close mate, then he became my boyfriend for 18 months, then we split n i hated him n just this week after months i got back in contact with him n we r gonna meet up n sort stuff out - so in my case yeh it is possible altho it aint as simple as it sounds, it is emotionally destroying and you have to have a really close bond to go through all of them and come out at the other end happy. If meeting Mike goes well then maybe we did have a strong bond after all - i really hope it goes well coz i miss him but wish me luck coz we havnt spoken in months n it wont b easy! (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Re: shesjustagirl 2004-03-09 08:23 (link)
	GOOD LUCK SWEETS!! * (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	x_xsugarx_x 2004-03-08 22:53 (link)
	yes, i do think that it is possible..... (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Re: shesjustagirl 2004-03-09 08:11 (link)
	well ANYTHING is possible...but is it realistic?? * (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: x_xsugarx_x 2004-03-09 22:09 (link)
	it just depends on the circumstances. personally i really don't like any of my exes enough to acknowledge they exist. :/ (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: shesjustagirl 2004-03-10 07:21 (link)
	HAHA...youre awesome!! * (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: x_xsugarx_x 2004-03-10 12:26 (link)
	=o) thanks (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Toughy... lullabye 2004-03-08 23:15 (link)
	Hmm well...I have mixed results with this one... My ex dan and I hate each other..we went back and forth for along time, and the love hate thing always would come back up. Now it is just hate. But another one of my ex's, shaun, and I are really good friends, hes a great guy. I think it depends on what kind of people are involved... (Reply to this) (Thread)

	zoe 2004-03-09 09:42 (link)
	i dont know. i am currently on the enemy stage (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Re: shesjustagirl 2004-03-09 18:49 (link)
	well let me know when you experience ALL the stages...* (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

uber_shannon 2004-03-09 22:07 (link)

found you on random, thought you posed an interetsing question... yes i believe it to be completely realistic and possible to go through those stages and end out with a friend. My ex-boyfriend Sean and I started out as aquantances, moved to friends then loves and when i cheated on him [[ i know, im horrible its the worst thing possible to do to someone ]] and we hated each other for over 4 months, no talking- nothing. Just this past year we've contacted eeach other and become really great friends. So it is possible to survive it all. Just my experience. -shannon (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Re: shesjustagirl 2004-03-10 07:23 (link)
	thanks for the imput...but what i really wanted to know...is it possible to go back to your original state in the relationship...like wipe the slate clean so to speak?? * (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

redrose3436 2004-03-09 23:07 (link)

I think its extremely possible, since ive experienced it myself. Look at where me and my ex are now. First we were friends. Then we both had crushes on each other, and then we got together, and i think somewhere in that time i actually loved him. But then a rumor around school broke us apart, and we hated each other. Now, we are like best friends, as if we hadnt hated each other for the past 6 months. It happens. ~michelle (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Re: shesjustagirl 2004-03-10 07:19 (link)
	yeah...like everyone says...its life...* (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

cartman 2004-03-10 03:17 (link)

Yeah... I have these coupla friends that started out as friends, became bf/gf, broke up and were still friends, fooled around, feelings got hurt, hated each other for a bit and just started talking again (their excuse for hanging out was 'cause I was in town). If one of both of them would swallow their pride I'm sure they would go back to being great friends and I know that deep down they both want to be friends again. Pride is fucking overrated sometimes. As for me...I've been friends first with most of the girls I grew to like (and one to love) and even though they never accepted my feelings for 'em I'm still friends with all of them (except for the one I never knew well enough to begin with). (Reply to this) (Thread)