Why am I the BITCH??
So what the fuck is the deal with everyone always thinking that just because a girl has an opinion...it automatically makes her a BITCH?? I mean God forbid a woman should actually have an opinion AND ::gasp:: a backbone to express her mind without a shudder. But heres what really pisses me off...the fact that other girls are getting in on this owning up to your "bitch-osity" bullshit...WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT SUPPOSE TO MEAN??...what kind of female says something like that??...Okay heres a revelation...guys are neanderthals...they are expected to grunt...spit...scratch their balls...and find that attractive at the end of the day...but LADIES...come on now...we are the creators and molders...lets keep the role-reversal between the sheets...DONT EVER LET A BOY MAKE YOU THINK BEING A BITCH IS A GOOD THING...and girls...DONT EVER LET A BOY CONVINCE YOU THAT CALLING ANOTHER GIRL A BITCH IS GOOD THING...Keep this saying in mind...BROS BEFORE HOS...If we dont stand up for eachother...who will?? *
(Post a new comment)
 |  Has the balls to enter the female dominated discussion
 cartman
2004-03-09 19:45
(link) |
I agree with you.
A woman/girl isn't a "bitch" just for expressing their mind but its a lil hard to not be offended by "guys are neanderthals" remark.
Sure, I agree with you to an extent, but remember that MOST of and NOT ALL guys are like that.
The ones who truly give a crap (like me) could be completely turned off to such accusations and borderline sexism.
Again, I'm not offended because not only do I see where you're coming from, I agree with you to an extent; all I'm saying is that if you but massive amount of fire on ONE SIDE of the dispute then you tend to not promote harmony and equality but begin to reverse the coin completely
and if you go overboard it will be like you're defeating your own purpose.
Catch my drift?
No one likes people that constantly disagree with them just to be doing so (hehe, I've never disagreed with you just for the sake of it Katie my darling) so even us level headed guys will get annoyed with the constant push of one side of the story eventually, know what I mean?
Aside from that, there is a point where words become wayyyyyyyyyyy too weighty.
I mean if I call my guy friend a bitch he's not going to get offended and if a girl calls ME a bitch I won't be offended either, haha, I'd just laugh it off (even if she really ment it to hurt me or something).
There is a difference between joking and saying things to hurt people.
There is also a point where some people get their feelings hurt for the most insignificant little things and become overwhelmingly difficult to deal with, even if you're a considerate type of person.
I just think that if all sexism was abolished, people would be clear when they are making a joke, people would be able to take a fuckin joke, people would be considerate of others and so forth...the world would be a much better place. (And don't forget that some you can't have without the other.)
Also,
a real man doesn't ALWAYS have to be in control.
And a real woman doesn't always have to be in control either.
Life is sometimes two way street people:
Learn which lane to drive on.(Reply to this) (Thread) |
| Re: A neanderthal speaks *gasp*
cartman
2004-03-10 15:15
(link) |
I didn't say that you said ALL men are neanderthals, I even quoted you exactly with "men are neanderthals" ... where is there an 'ALL' in that statement?
I was just making that statement to further clarify so that the OThER readers hear so.
And how many times did I agree with you in that most guys are like that...2 times? 3?
Did you just completely skip over those parts to make a point that you've already made before?
"im not being sexist i am speaking the truth hun"
I understand that you think that but we have to understand that just because we believe so doesn't make it "truth".
I mean you're right, there are countless examples, but just because there are still makes "men are neanderthals" an opinion statement and no one person's opinion has more weight than another person's.
"the whole point to the agrument is not to 'promote harmony and equality' between the sexes"
Oh I'm sorry, I thought you would since you claim to be mature (or at least allude to it sometimes).
Some people would rather whine about the past than change the present and the future - People can never let things go in general.
I'm not saying completely overlook the injustices of the past, I'm saying its far better to DO something about them than to just be angry (add frivolous emotion here) and not do anything else about it.
Infants cry, children throw tantrums and (immature) adolescents and people in general get angry and throw out derogatory words of anger; AcTUaL adults actually DO something about injustices.
I'm not accusing you of these things but surely you can see the comparisons.
" NOBODY SHOULD USE THE WORD BITCH TO DESCRIBE A WOMAN...and on a final note...just the fact that you would use that profane word in a "joking" manner shows that you ARE like the guys i refer to in the passage...* "
Nope, I didn't miss it the first time, I just choose not to abide by your or socities (half-imbecile) rules.
I'm afraid YoU missed the point at the end.
I agree that using the word "bitch" with intent to hurt someone is wrong, we all know this.
But I also believe that people should REALLY learn to take a fucking joke and not get hurt by EvErY-SinGLe-LittLE-WoRd that comes out of someone's mouth.
Not is it only stupid of someone to use words like that but its also stupid to get mad at them since
by your definition since as soon as the word "bitch" comes out of their mouth they are immediately judged as neanderthals...why the hell would you care what a neanderthal thinks?
Why not let it roll off your back?
You know they're stupid yet you give them massive amounts of power by letting them offend you with a little fucking word.
Also, the fact that you put a huge bias against a person just for using one tiny little word says something about you.
I mean its understandable to be angry by it but just being angry about it doesn't do a thing
and cutting people off via prejudice (also a word for bias) could end up weeding out the good people along with the bad.(Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread) |
(Post a new comment)
|
