¤ Lª§† B£ªü†iƒül GüRL ¤ (igotcrack) wrote in sextips, @ 2008-01-30 22:58:00

Current mood:

frustrated

someone please help me...i'm going to die if this continues....
Okay so here is my problem. I am doing a friend's with benifits thing (i don't want a relationship right now) but the guy i am sleeping with isn't very big...All my other ex's were between 8 and 9inches...this guy is a little over 6. I can barely feel anything when we have sex. What can I do to enhance the feeling? We are very open sexual about talking what the other one wants so I don't have to be scared to approach him and tell him what I want. any suggestions would be great!...fyi I like to be in pain during sex so any tips on bringing the pain will so be welcomed lol.

	shes_a_war 2008-02-02 00:29 (link)
	tighten your vagina muscles to make you tighter, you'll be able to feel it more. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	unodosthrice 2008-02-03 15:06 (link)
	(the ones that you use to stop mid-pee). (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

igotcrack 2008-02-10 12:04 (link)

hehe thanks. It does work I must say a little. I found out that me on top though can really get me off with him :) (weird cause the other guys I dated they were always on top cause they were lame..) lol. any other posistions you think will work with him? I have done quite a few (the ones I can bend my self into) with my ex's but they were so boring and avrage in bed where this guy is willing to try anything once :) (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

krissyxdee 2008-02-12 14:14 (link)

well, in my school, we have a sex education class, and my teacher is literally called a sexpert. he's been in documentries about sex, books, on tv shows. i think most of his brain is sex. no lie. and we just talked about this in class today. honestly, i dont know what the explanation is for you not feeling it, but the size doesnt depend on pleasure. (i never knew this) your vagina goes back to normal size after sex (and even after having a baby) even if you have had sex with someone who has a bigger penis. some girls vaginas are just naturally not as tight so my sex ed teacher does rec. kegals because they can enhance sex alot. idk he told me sexual pleasure depends on how the guys erection goes (sticks out, sticks more upwards, to the side) or the shape (if it's slightly curved) you dont have to believe me because half of my class didnt believe him at first. but yeah. he also says doggie is the best and on top is only good for clitoral stimulation but not much of vaginal since you can only feel the first 1/3 of your vagina. and missionary isnt as good for a female or male and that its the position that is most likely to get your pregnant. (Reply to this) (Thread)