Neko X (neko_x) wrote, @ 2003-04-28 23:19:00

Current mood:	disappointed
Current music:	aeris's theme(orchestrated)-nobuo uematsu

ok can a person do that?
can a person say they love you and then a week later say that they just dont feel it anymore? is it for lack of trying?. can they lead you on beleiveing that it is so..and then one moment say they dont feel it anymore? what does that mean? does it mean it was a fleeting futile attempt at sumthign ? does it mean they cant handle it? or does it mean you did sumthign to turn them away>? i have been told by only so many women that they love me and beleived them..now i only beleive one...becaue she dosent hurt me..i have endured all the pain she has to offer..and the last time she said it , i was caught offguard...i wotn beleive anyone anymore...because once a box liek that is opend. a person has to be very cold to close it again.

star_kitten 2003-04-29 01:41 (link)

People's emotions can change very quickly. I am one that knows that first hand. When in love you are bound to get hurt, its part of life. But if someone says they love you one minute and not the next then maybe perhaps they will come to loving you again. Hell, this reminds me of something that happened to me today even. Love is a fickle thing, that it is. People are mean and will say horrid things given the chance, but sometimes (I'm not saying that everyone is the same, this is from my expirence) they don't mean it. I don't know the extremity of your problem but I can see that people have been messing with your emotions. Its bound to happen, but someday someone will come into your life and make the world seem right again. Just listen to your heart (its corny, but very true) o.O; (Reply to this) (Thread)

md 2003-04-30 13:04 (link)

Actually, contrary to popular belief, love is NOT a fickle thing. Hormones are fickle, physical attraction is fickle. Love is NEVER fickle, because love -- true love -- takes time to grow. There is no such thing as love at first sight, there is no such thing as learning love because you have sex with a person or date them for a week or so. When you have real love, it is unconditional and it is unwavering and it is always forgiving. No matter what happens, when you have love, it's for forever. Believe me. People use the word 'love' way too loosely these days. Take no substitutes -- people who declare that they love you without having seen you through your best and absolute worst have no grounds to tell you such things. But maybe I'm a hypocrite for saying that, considering our positions right now. But even admitting that, you know I'll always love you. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	neko_x 2003-04-30 23:01 (link)
	thank you. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)