Morghan (morghanx) wrote, @ 2005-06-02 22:59:00

survey
Rate the following based on their level of importance to you, also note any that you feel are completely not applicable or you’d want to avoid. (this is mainly geared towards submissives and slaves)

Sense of:
place
belonging (to a group)
being owned
being useful
being loved/cared for
being appreciated
being a supporter

luxveritas 2005-07-05 00:38 (link)

using a scale of 1 to 10 place: in the sense of physical location - is something that I don't feel strongly about. I'm not particularly moved by geography of one sort or another. place gets a low rating - perhaps 2. in a spiritual sense - i think my place is with a Dominant Woman belonging (to a group): fellowship is one of the chief pleasures of living, and yet something I'm not particularly good at. it is something that I want more of in my life - and something that I'm working on. belonging garners a rating of 7 - on the high end because I am conscious of the lack in my life and eager for more. being owned: something on the way towards an embrace - my body and soul reach out in this direction. to be received I think would enlarge my life in all directions. a rating of 10 - if there were a higher rating it would get it. being useful: I think satisfaction and dignity go hand-in-hand with utility in every aspect of life. thinking on usefulness now - it occurs to me that I am too much the individual and it scatters me ................. as an exercise I think I will open myself up and see how I can fit myself more usefully into the lives of the people around me. it gets a rating of 6 - there is work to be done. being loved/cared for: without love life is a stony path - one gets by but the soul shrivels and hardens. life is love as far as I'm concerned - and life should be a celebration, erotic as well as spiritual. I have been loved and I am a lover. love gets top honors - nothing less than 10 being appreciated: the black nights of my emotional life are something that I carry around with me - positive energy is an elixir in any form, but appreciation is something that makes me feel a little uncomfortable. I think this again is about me being hung-up on myself which is a trap for me. to fold my energy fully into a Dominant Woman I think I would have to give up my hang-ups. An expression of appreciation is pure pleasure which I may share in once I'm no longer mixed up in my own muddy emotions about myself. appreciation gets a 3 being a supporter: nothing gives me more pleasure than the exchange of my positive energy to an individual or an idea or a movement. it's a narcotic. an energetic 10 (Reply to this) (Thread)

	kiuwo 2005-08-15 12:04 (link)
	Sense of: being owned being useful being appreciated being a supporter belonging (to a group) being loved/cared for place (Reply to this) (Thread)

	(Anonymous) 2005-08-23 04:01 (link)
	Sense of: being useful \ place -> >important being owned/ being appreciated }not so much being loved/cared for }even less, i'm afraid being a supporter } of what? belonging (to a group) }i don't really care put into these narrow terms, i am a most selfish & self absorbed individual. & to think, most folk don't find any validity in online surveys... ~{:B^|> (Reply to this) (Thread)