mel (mel80) wrote, @ 2009-01-27 23:07:00

Current mood:	bitchy
Current music:	My Chemical Romance - This is how I disappear

Cringe worthy
I don't get how some people keep declaring how much they love their other half OUT LOUD on Facebook's shoutout.

I'm fine with putting up couple pictures to share with your friends. After all, friends will be happy to see you being happy and all.

Maybe it's their first time in a relationship or maybe it's their honeymoon phase. But 7 or 8 out of 10 times writing something like "I love my bf for doing this and that" or "I have the sweetest bf blah blah blah"....

Honestly, it is cringe worthy and puts people off.

The first few times, maybe some friends will go like "awww soooo sweet!". But having it all the time just grosses friends out. Or even worse, friends start to drift away from you because of it.

Like oh come on. We KNOW you love your bf already. Get on with life, ok?

Besides, I think only those teenage puppy love kind of couples will do such acts. Something is a little wrong if adult couples do those things. One does not need to declare such mushy things to the whole world. Yes, the whole world knows you are in a loving relationship already. Now keep your mushy hunny bunny stuff in your bedrooms please?

Maybe I'm old fashioned or something, but I honestly believe that long term adult relationships is more than just those 'on the surface' stuff. It is more about tolerance, understanding, compromise, trust, learning how to live with one another, and so much more.

When you love one another deep in your hearts, you do not have to constantly declare it to the whole world. You just know it deep within. That is what really matters. :)

	smapxorenji 2009-01-27 10:53 (link)
	After all, it's their lives, not ours. I guess what you can do is to stop reading em'? haha~ If I were you i'd do just so. you know I can feel you, right? =) Now I feel like b*itching tons with you my amigo....Lol~ (Reply to this) (Thread)

	mel80 2009-01-27 22:08 (link)
	Yeah true. The simple way is to just ignore, of course. But sometimes, I really need to get it out of my chest or I will suffocate! Yes, let's meet and bitch soon. I'm sure you have lots to say! lol (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	\brave chinese girl\ (Anonymous) 2009-01-28 19:35 (link)
	smapxorenji! I loooooooove ur dp..! *slurps* he wear glasses also yandao! he dun wear glasses also yandao!~~~~~~ *hearts* mel, well.. u remind me of our "friend" on FB who always talk abt the gf HAHA! (Reply to this) (Thread)

Re: \brave chinese girl\ mel80 2009-01-29 05:46 (link)

If you meet smapxorenji in person, she can talk to you about Kimura Takuya ALL DAY ALL NIGHT loh. She is the kind who goes Japan every year just to watch SMAP! Ehh actually you met her once before. She was the one who screamed when we played Bu Neng Shuo De Mi Mi at Esplanade LOL! That guy you are referring to is your friend loh. Not mind. I is emo because he deleted me on FB! Ohhh woe is me! Boohoohoooo! *slits wrist and dies* LOL (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: \brave chinese girl\ smapxorenji 2009-01-30 12:50 (link)
	correction. it's SMAP AND Fujiki Naohito. WAHAHA~ Oh, brave chinese girl is regine is it? =) Aiya, I think she has forgotten how I look like but she definitely remembered there was a siao charbor shouting that night. haha~ yeah, yandao right? he's more yandao in person. HAHA~ (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)