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Nice little workout
Today Adam and I went and worked out some. We did a lot of stretches especially for the legs. Our goal is to have me be able to touch my toes. I need to be a little more limber anyways. After we stretched we walked a few times around the track I think ¾ of a mile. I forgot to bring some bottled water so I started to get thirsty and he also needed to go home and do some work. So we left.
While we were walking we talked about a few things. One topic that stuck out in my mind was when Adam was telling me about this lecture his dad gave him. His father knows I don’t like him because he talks down to me. Because of that I refuse to be subjected to his attitude so I never bother with his father. Well his father went on ranting about me not liking him and saying the reason he talks down to me like a little kid is because he thinks I act like a little kid because I don’t like him for talking down to me like I’m a little child (hard to follow I know). My own father doesn’t talk down to me and I’m not going to let his father treat me like that. His father has done nothing for me and thinks he has the right to talk down to me, give me a break But then his dad goes on about how if Adam and I get married he will stay out of our lives forever. The funny thing is that his dad thinks this is a bad thing. Adam was telling me that was the best news he has heard in ages. Poor Adam has to put up with his fathers controlling attitude too much. He doesn’t even love his father anymore because of a long line of incidents and just the overall lack of caring in their relationship. I hardly ever visit Adams house because I don’t want to bother with his father. I don’t want anything from him because then he might think that he can control me if he actually contributed a cent to my well being. But yea now Adam is even happier that we are together because I had the guts to stand up to his father and not even bother with his bullshit. Now he won’t have to deal with someone who treats him badly and is so disappointed in him because he didn’t join the military. I honestly think that his father would be happier if Adam was over in Iraq instead of him being here and going to college to become a high school biology teacher. Instead of being supportive that Adam found a line of work that he actually wants to do they are trying to change his mind to do what they want him to do (something dealing with the military). I’m just happy he found something he likes and even if it doesn’t pay much we will still have more than enough with our salaries combined. I’m good at managing money so I’m not worried about that. I don’t deal with Adams father but at least he won’t have to when we are finally married.
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