all alone :( (justsurrender11) wrote, @ 2008-04-10 21:05:00

Current mood:

curious

I NEED YOUR GUYS HELP!=(











FIRST OFF, MY SECRET?



this is gonna to be my first date.
=(



i had my boyfriend for more than 4 years, (off and on of course) but we ended a few months ago, he just isnt someone i want to surround myself with anymore.. espically since were out of high school, i feel that i need to branch out, and find my own way, espically after the mess and jerk he turned into=(





ANYWAYS;


this is my first date. and im HECKA nervous.
i dont know what to do, how to react, and since its not my ex
im just panicking! =(
and its worse cause my friend is setting me up with him
so i dont even know him that well. granted we've been texting
and he asked me out on it, but yeah




any tips or advice?


you guys are always good with this kinds of stuff.
thanks in advance, or my patheticness=(

neurotoxicity 2008-09-25 16:05 (link)

i don't know, but i saw your post on blurtysecret and this is what i wanted to say but couldn't because i'm not a member: you know, I know I don't know you at all and I'm really unfamiliar with your situation but maybe he felt like it was your turn to come back? Maybe he was tired of having to be the one to do so and figured that if you really wanted him, you'd realize you made a mistake. Try going back, you never know. That's just what I think, and of course, I don't know why you left him. I'm just saying. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	wakingxdreams 2009-03-09 00:27 (link)
	just be yourself :) when i went on my first date after my break-up with my ex of 3.5 years, i just looked at it as i was goin to hang out with a new friend. "date" didnt really cross my mind. and we actually had a good time and have been goin out on dates frequently. good luck!! (Reply to this) (Thread)