So, I haven't updated in a while. But long story short, I've been really jerked around lately by a certain someone. A certain someone who I really felt strongly for. But he's sort of slammed the door shut on his own face.
And you know what? His loss.
He said that in a relationship, its like you are obligated to hang out with that person. which makes no sense what so ever. You should *want* to hang out with that person. ANd he said that was teh difference between when we were official and when we weren't. When we weren't, he wanted to hang out and when we were official, he felt obligated to, even though I didnt do anything differently.
Well if he'd rather have a girlfriend that he has to feel obligated to hang out with instead of one he genuinely wants to hang out with he can have it. But it isn't going to be me. I'd like to say that I hope he finds someone else who can make him laugh hard enough to have to leave the table, or that he can find someone else who kisses him so good he constantly reminds them of how good of a kisser they are, or that he finds someone else who will stop mid make out with him to look at a passing airplane, or that he finds someone else who will take being called a dung beetle as a compliment, or someone else who will sit for hours in the freezing cold watching the sun go down and the moon come up, or someone else who will stand in the freezing cold just to watch airplanes come in, or someone else who can go for six days without seeing him but still be happy for him because he's doing what he loves, or someone else who will put up with him being 20 minutes late almost constantly, or someone else who will be able to give him what we had going.....I'd like to say I hope he finds someone else like that, but right now, I really don't. Right now, I hope he realizes what he's giving up.
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(Anonymous)
2005-02-10 13:19
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Aw I'm sorry, but good for you!
Sounds like he ended up being a big jerkface.
but trust me, he WILL regret it. Even if its 3 years from now, he'll suddenly realize how great you were, and by then, it will be too late. sucks for him, but we can't really feel that bad.
-Kara :)(Reply to this) (Thread) |
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(Anonymous)
2005-02-10 15:37
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I hope that bastard gets hit upside the head with a frying pan. Come home soon Prizzle! <3 ~Alicey (Reply to this) (Thread) |
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