love_insanityxx (love_insanityxx) wrote in emoleericks, @ 2009-11-05 14:35:00

my boyfriend won't stop talking about his fucking ex. they were together for like a year. that was THREE years ago. and i still hear her name every single fucking day. and then he got pissed and yelled at me when i snapped and told him i'm sick of hearing about her.

am i being crazy?? he told me when you're with someone for a long time you want them to stay a part of your life. why?! no you fucking don't. FUCKING MOVE ON. IT WAS THREE GODDAMN YEARS AGO. my boyfriend and i were together over three years, we broke up not even a year ago and i hardly ever talk about him.

i've kept my mouth shut about this for six months. SO DON'T FUCKING BE PISSED AT ME BECAUSE I'M SICK OF HEARING THAT GIRL'S GODDAMN NAME EVERY FUCKING DAY OF MY LIFE.

I DON'T FUCKING CARE THAT SHE WAS WITH YOU DURING THE HARDEST TIME OF YOUR LIFE. I DON'T CARE THAT YOU HAD SEX ON THE GRASS ONCE AND IT WAS AWESOME. I DON'T CARE ABOUT THAT FUNNY THING SHE SAID WHEN THE COPS CAUGHT YOU HAVING SEX IN THE CAR. I DON'T CARE THAT YOU CAME ON HER FACE. WHY THE FUCK WOULD ANY GIRL WANT TO HEAR THAT EVERY FUCKING DAY?



sorry. i needed to vent somewhere. but really, am i being ridiculous?

	screw65hello 2009-11-05 15:13 (link)
	not at allll. i would've flipped wayy before 6 months. if anything youre extremely strong for putting up with that for so long. i hope he comes around and realizes how stupid he's being. :) (Reply to this) (Thread)

not to scare you, but... makinghistory 2009-11-05 15:50 (link)

Wow, I was literally in the EXACT same situation... my boyfriend dated this girl for a year in high school (exactly 3 years ago)... and she would ALWAYS come up and it was never anything BAD... just like, oh yeah courtney used to do that, or oh yeah i saw that movie with courtney, oh yeah i havent been to six flags since i went with courtney bla bla bla but the casual mention of her name drove me fucking CRAZY..... and turns out all my suspicions were correct. I found out last weekend that they have been hooking up. pretty much makes me want to shoot both of them in the head. =[ so NO, what he is doing ISNT normal and if you feel like somethigns wrong, it probably is. Go with your gut ALWAYS and dont let him make you feel crazy. your feelings are more than valid. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Re: not to scare you, but... love_insanityxx 2009-11-05 18:39 (link)
	i'm so sorry that happened to you. :( it's crazy that they make you feel like YOU'RE the bad guy. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	ztgplove 2009-11-05 18:15 (link)
	f that. find some1 who is obsessed with you... not their ex. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	love_insanityxx 2009-11-05 18:34 (link)
	thanks, guys. :) you made me feel less crazy. (Reply to this) (Thread)

x_br0k3n 2009-11-13 11:47 (link)

i'm in kind of a similar situation right now i'm not technically together with this guy cause of distance... actually we've never met but we've talked everyday on webcam for 6 hours a night for the past like 8 months... well just before we started talking and for a bit at the beginning he was still with his girlfriend of three years but complained to me everyday about how she was such a bitch and treated him like shit and was a horrible girlfriend. eventually he finally broke up with her but there is still drama happening between them all the time and she gets mad at him for talking to girls on facebook or when i write on his wall so he deletes my comments and they arwent even together anymore. and i get mad and ask why the hell its still any of her buisness and why he's trying to hide me and he just says he doesn't want the drama to have anything to do with me. i know he really really wants to get over her but its one of those things he just can't do. he tells me what happens with her all the time because he says i have the right to know, and i let him tell me about it because i know it would be worse if he didnt and something were to happen between them and it blind sided me. it just sucks cause i 'm really really in love with him and hearing her name everyday is getting so god damn annoying. ESPECICALLY because shes still doing stupid shit and continues to prove shes a compelte idiot and doesn't care about him and he puts up with it. i think if he was a virgin and lost his virginity to her that has a lot to do with his connection with her and with not being able to let go of it all. i think thats part of the thing with my guy. i totally understand how it feels when someone is telling you how much they love you and then turn around and talk about their ex girlfriend. sounds to me like your boy isn't over it just yet. year ago or not :( i know mine isn't. but he's been honest with me about that since the beginning so i get it. ask him though be like "i'm not trying to start an argument but are you REALLY over her cause you alwaysss talk about it." you're not acting crazy. mine gets mad at me when i get mad too and we always end up in arguments about it. he's all "but we have so much history to just let it go like that" when the person she's become is not who she used to be and thats the reason they broke up. i really DON'T get it and i wish he would just fucking get over it already. haha i needed to rant that too. glad i'm not the only one out there going through this though its a little comforting. (Reply to this) (Thread)