much to my surprise
I thought my previous entry would be my last. But there is more to tell.
In the case of my wife, the update is fairly simple. We filed for legal separation on Monday, not quite a week ago. In Washington state, that's equivalent to divorce, with just a few exceptions: it doesn't apply to federal law in any way, and it doesn't free either party to marry again. It's a slow process, but that's OK; neither of us is in a hurry to marry again.
The surprise with my new girlfriend – a model in addition to being a singer and an actress – is that she is interested in trying out a threesome, inviting another woman to play with us. She wants to watch me having sex with the so-far hypothetical other woman; she might just watch, or she might join in on the fun, depending on how she reacts to the situation. Her preference would be for a beautiful Asian woman, but she might be flexible on that. Black women are off limits; she doesn't want to see me with any black woman other than her.
So, toward the goal of satisfying my girlfriend's threesome fantasy, I'm sort-of back on the market. I'd be absolutely satisfied with no other woman than her, but I certainly don't mind indulging her fantasy. I wonder if we'll find someone suitable, and how it will go if we do.