the violinist (br3ak_d_sil3nc3) wrote, @ 2003-11-22 07:30:00

What would you do if you like a guy who feels the same way towards you but he happened to be in a relationship and it seems like he wanted to get out from that relationship?

	vainpire 2003-11-22 00:19 (link)
	Maybe nothing. It is the guy who should take the action first. If he no longer wants to be in the relationship, then he has to be strong about it and face the challenge of being himself by telling the other person that he wants out. One simple thing you can do though is to make him understand your situation and "enlighten" him about it. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	br3ak_d_sil3nc3 2003-11-22 02:42 (link)
	Exactly. Thanks. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	br0wn_c0w 2003-11-23 23:21 (link)
	Ditto. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

thefool 2003-11-22 06:14 (link)

i'm afraid, i guess this only makes me look like a jerk now but i'd probably make a move. yung gf ko kasi right now was still in a relationship when we fell for each other. and although nakaka-guilty talaga, tinuloy ko na lang at pinaglaban ko yung nararamdaman ko. i didn't want to miss out on what could be the once-in-a-lifetime chance to be happy. that plus she wasn't happy in her other relationship anymore. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	br3ak_d_sil3nc3 2003-11-22 07:31 (link)
	How would you know it's time to make a move? hehe! Puro questions no. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: thefool 2003-11-22 11:35 (link)
	paano ba kami nagumpisa? we just kept hanging out together. we constantly talked over the phone and we went out -- coffee, beer, bands... until umabot na kami sa point na di na namin ma-deny feelings namin sa isa't-isa. take it slow but don't close your doors. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	slate 2003-11-22 22:44 (link)
	I don't have an answer to the question. Basta alam ko, pok-pok ka. Ikaw nga best friend ko. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	br3ak_d_sil3nc3 2003-11-23 04:56 (link)
	Uhhh! Im just a slut. You chose me as ur best friend, now bear with that. Hehe! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	twnks 2003-11-27 02:23 (link)
	add me back please.. :( (Reply to this) (Thread)

(Anonymous) 2005-10-05 06:59 (link)

just a lurker. I was in a situation like the one your having now, but I'm the one stuck in a relationship. It was hard, but I did break up and found myself with the new one... Just let time flow: If he has the guts, he would do it in time. But that does not mean that you're just going to be stale about it. Act. http://je_suis_rocaillieux_mais_doux.blogs.friendster.com/sans_doute_et_soupon_plei/ (Reply to this) (Thread)