Queen Of Pain (queenofpain3) wrote in blurtysecret, @ 2009-10-19 01:45:00

I put off studying until the last minute and then barely study at all. Then when I do poorly on tests I just say "well if I'd have studied harder..." But I'm really not sure if studying more would help and it scares me to death to think I'll fail even when I work my ass off. I'm sabotaging myself and I don't know how to stop...

	crzy4u2134 2009-10-21 09:17 (link)
	lol simple solution: try studying harder, you might be pleasantly surprised. (Reply to this) (Thread)

missmarymarch 2009-10-26 20:17 (link)

You say you're not sure if all your efforts are short of worthy and the fear that it brings if it's true. Sounds like you're just afraid of failure, maybe more then some people. Don't worry,I'm afraid too, but it's an ill-founded fear. Study hard, it won't help you not too and you'll never know if what you fear is the truth if you don't. p.s. - I'm writing this as 3 exams hang over the horizon and I've just slept all day instead of study, but my therapist gives me this advice and I impart it onto you. =) (Reply to this) (Thread)

	queenofpain3 2009-10-27 04:45 (link)
	lol thanks for the advice. gotta try to get over that fear I guess :-/ good luck to you! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)