Ayla (shoot_the_moon) wrote in blurtysecret, @ 2009-10-17 14:53:00

I saw you first anyway...

crzy4u2134 2009-10-18 09:12 (link)

i love your picture with this secret. Very unique. I ruined my last relationship because my ex was always trying to get back with me and instead of just standing my ground, i let him into my life which complicated everything. I lost the trust of my boyfriend and everything. It was such a mess. It sucks because you always have a place in your heart for your ex, and if it didn't end so badly, then you don't really want to completely destroy the ties. But I've learned that sometimes when the ex is trying to interefre in your new relationship you NEED to tell him or her good bye so you can both move on and having healthy relationships with new people. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	crzy4u2134 2009-10-18 09:16 (link)
	But it is really hard to tell some one that you've cared about in the past that you don't want them in your life at all anymore.. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	shoot_the_moon 2009-10-19 20:19 (link)
	I agree with all of that, so so true. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

xflipp3floppx 2009-11-02 15:24 (link)

i know how you feeeeeeeel. my boyfriends ex moved to the other side of the country but i know they still talk (just keeping in touch- as friends.. ) she'll post comments every so often on his facebook and such and he's told me that she shoots him texts every so often.. i'm not sure if she still does or not. Whether or not he writes back to her on facebook is a mystery on account of i can't see cause i'm not friends with her. But, i try not to let it bother me- i trust my guy, so i ignore it. but i do secretly wish they had a miserable ending and hated eachother, instead of only breaking up because of distance and remaining friends.. lol whatevaaaa, right? can't stress over little things. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	xflipp3floppx 2009-11-02 15:28 (link)
	oh and a quick add on; i saw my guy first/knew him first before they even met! so we are on a similar page! haha (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)