autumnleaf (arpita) wrote, @ 2004-02-27 02:57:00

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Letter To my 'Half A Friend'
A long time back a ‘Half a friend’told me, to always force out the first love off your life and the second finds would be best and would willingly stay too for life. And that was the time somewhere around ‘Techkriti02’. Not that odd that I reminded of it today when ‘Techkriti04’ saw its opening.
And how then I used to do things for passion (the kind u read about in books)...of course like fiction, it couldn't be sustained. Times then had seen my intense passionate romantic involvement with every affair taken up. Two years of real life intrusion and I am talking about them as memories for almost all have celebrated anniversaries of requiem by now.
As I talk about them, I have nothing left to say, no special tears to lighten me up or special smiles to soothe me through. But I do wonder, if for Ones the same passions were to face me again, taking form like human, would we have anything to say to each other but "what are ‘you’ thinking?”
O well remembered 'Half a friend', I tried your deal. True that my new found passions are no longer thoughtless like first loves but lovers, very well reasoned. Also is also, when most if given the slightest of chance will even stay for life. But ironically enough, I only wanted my first love to stay for life. With these second bests, I might have third and fourth and infinite loves and no sooner I love them than I’m thinking of leaving them.
Well Said he, but not completely!!

	adrenalin 2004-02-26 22:25 (link)
	just one wrong assumtion you made, namely, 'first love is always the best'. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	maybe.. arpita 2004-02-27 01:26 (link)
	the assumption behind is that first love is not that it is the best but that it goes or is forced out. And if you are living without it, u are already educated that u can even survive beyond any second ones however good or better they be. There is little life in holding on if it requires efforts... So, are you believer in love? cheers, Arpita (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: maybe.. adrenalin 2004-02-27 03:15 (link)
	yep i am..any rocker would be.;) i know how hard it is to forget your first love but i also know there's life beyond that and you do find a better one. so hows iitk shaping up? you r lucky u can visit it anytime you want to. all those new buildings must have come up by now? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

pranshu 2004-02-28 00:04 (link)

this is the fifth time I am reading this post .. but heheeh still not sure what is my stand on this ..Believe in love in the truest sense... theres no first love kinda thing ... each one is different ...as fresh as the first one .. and as close to your heart as the first one .. hope u can make some sense outta these weird ramblings :p heheh waise wat are the plans for Techkriti'04 ...mugging :P ?? (Reply to this) (Thread)

It must b u ! ! dis1flew 2004-02-28 09:52 (link)

Hi, I'm not surprised at all. Such is life my friend but dont be sure of the next either coz that too might not b what it is supposed to b. Love can b another four letter word like any other. 'In Life as in Love if u can fake it u can make it.' Not that i accept this but it is true. Wish u all the best with a piece of unasked for advice: Think with ur brain and not your heart. Ur heart will let u down but ur brain will take u to high glories. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	roon 2004-03-28 05:34 (link)
	For me, they very first love of one's life sucks. but then again, its something you can never forget. And everything happens for the best of you. these are the things from which one learn, and if one comes out of it strongly, he/she rocks. (Reply to this) (Thread)