|Current mood:|| contemplative|
|Current music:||Tyrese "Act Like That"|
So I have come to the conclusion that guys just suck...and even when they appear not to be an asshole and act like Mr. Nice Guy, they are still guys, and that will always come shining through to rear it's ugly head. And I'm just saying this as a generality, because I have dealt with my share of guys who fit this stereotype...quite a few in this past six months alone. Women always hear how guys say that we are so difficult and cofusing, but it would seem that the reverse is also true. Not complicated, mind you, but definitely difficult. And just when you think you can't handle it anymore because he's driving you crazy, he goes and says something that makes it impossible for you to hate him. I think any woman knows what I am talking about without even having to specify details. And why is it that the guy that you want to be with is not the one that wants to be with you, and the one that does want to be with you is not the one that you want to be with? Bad timing? Have the planets not aligned correctly? Or is there some reason for all this now and it will all fall into place naturally? Things have a way of working out...I just hope it's not too late.
As a side note, I was recently delving into the dusty reaches of my filing cabinet and found an email that I had received over 6 months ago that provides some interesting food for thought:
"Have you ever wondered which hurts the most? Saying something and wishing you hadn't, or saying nothing and wishing you had?
I guess the most important things are the hardest to say.
Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart...if you don't, you might break theirs.
Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losign what you already had with that person?
Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't.
You can't tell your heart what to do.
It does it on its own...when you least suspect it, or even when you don't want it to.
Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had, but that other person was too afraid to let you?
Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much...for fear that the other person does not care as much or even at all.
Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?
We tell lies when we are afraid...afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what other will think, afraid of what will be found out about us.
But everytime we tell a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger.
Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump.
Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have done, or could have had.
*What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye?
*What would you do if every time you wanted someone they would never be there?
*What would you do if your best friend died tomorrow and you never got to tell them how you felt?
*What would you do if you loved someone more than ever and you couldn't have them?
*What would you do if you never go the chance to say I am friends with all of my family and they know I love them?
If you died tomorrow, you be in my heart...would I be in yours?"
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