plaTinum plaYa (heartbr0k3n) wrote in advancedsextips, @ 2005-03-01 14:28:00

-- not really new here just never really posted --
ok so ive been dating this guy for 2 months and we are totally head over heels... i know prolly hard to believe but it is true... anyway my question is how can i REALLY turn him on in bed... he is more experienced then me and i havent used many positions so it is harder for me to be the one in ontrol but i really want to try it... can anyone help me?

nekokikichan85 2005-03-01 15:00 (link)

Different people are really turned on by different things. If he really cares for you he won't mind that you aren't as experianced as he. And even tho' he may be more experienced than you, your likes in sex may be quite different from his past partners. Part of the fun is exploring one another's bodies and learning what turns the other on, and drives them crazy. So lick, bite, kiss, nipple, and suck away. If you want some tips though, most guys nipples are sensitive so don't really ignore those just because they don't have breasts. As well as normally a guy likes having his balls licked, and if you're gentle, sucked. Also the area between the testicles and the anus is really sensitive, so have some fun with some licks and feathery touches in that area. Basically what would feel good on you, would probably feel good on him too. As you guys continue to explore one another's bodies however, you'll learn what he really loves and get a good feel for things. So just experiment, explore, and most importantly, have fun! And be safe! No sex without a rubber or getting him checked out. Even if he says his partners in the past were clean, I'd still ask him to take an STD test to be safe. Better safe than sorry. Good luck. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	heartbr0k3n 2005-03-02 10:19 (link)
	thanks so much... are there any positions to try... ive only done boring positions... i want to try new ones... (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

nekokikichan85 2005-03-02 12:51 (link)

First no positions are really "boring" :P Second, if you want to try branching off and attempting different positions try with you on top facing him, you on top not facing him, doggy style, him sitting on a chair and you on top facing him, or him sitting on a chair with you ontop not facint him. You can also try with you laying sideways and him going into you that way, but your leg has to be pretty flexible for that one. http://users.forthnet.gr/ath/nektar/kma/main.htm That's an animated karma sutra website so go check it out if you want to experiment with different positions. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	heartbr0k3n 2005-03-02 16:48 (link)
	thanks im gonna go check that out now.. maybe ill be able to surprise him by tonight... woot woot... youre the best (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)