sarah (bad_stars) wrote in advancedsextips, @ 2004-12-26 21:55:00

Current mood:

tired

Help
Okay, I have been having sex for about 2 years now with only 2 diffrent people, and I still have not been able to have an orgasam during sex. It seems the only way I can get off is my clit. I dont understand it. Ive tried many diffrent positions, but I just cant seem to. I mean it feels really good and all but it just doesnt get me off. Is there something wrong with me? Or am I doing something wrong?

HELP!

nekokikichan85 2004-12-27 13:02 (link)

It is extremly normal for females not to orgasm during sex. I don't either and its nothing to be ashamed about. Its actually rather rare for girls to orgasm during sex. If you want to orgasm during sex I suggest the you on top position and basically masturbate yourself via clit while you ride him. If you time it right you both can orgasm together. Other than that just keep enjoying the sex, and make sure you get some oral and hand play in if you want to orgasm. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	bad_stars 2004-12-28 22:53 (link)
	Wow, I didn't know that. Are there any positions that usually make a girl orgasam? Or is it just the guy..? I really want to have an orgasam through sex. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

nekokikichan85 2004-12-29 14:35 (link)

If you want to try and orgasm through sex I would suggest a position that would hit the g-spot, or positions where you or your partner could rub your clit manually. Or you could try positions where the clit will more easily be rubbed through sex. You can try having him in you, on top, with your legs closed together[this also makes a nice and tighter space for him]. Or if your partner is wider, like mine is, you can try laying on your side, with your legs opened, and have him position himself so that he's on his knees, while having sex. Since my partner has a wide penis this allows my clit to be rubbed during sex. However dont' be suprised if you don't orgasm during sex, or if you never orgasm during sex. While it'd be a nice thing to happen its still rare, and if you can't do it you can't do it. Worse comes to worse you or he will just have to rub yourself while having sex. Or you'll have to settle through oral. Don't become too frustrated about it or start making it a goal, since its more of a thing of genetics rather than practice. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)