Laura (countrykiss) wrote in advancedsextips, @ 2004-10-05 02:02:00

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Lasting Longer in Bed
Hey everyone! I posted this in SexTips as well and only got a little bit of response and was wondering if anyone could help me in here... im asking for my boyfriend, He was wonering if there was any way to make him last longer during sex. I personally am completely ok with his performance but he wishes he could last longer and I figured I would help him. I've never delt with this situation considering my last boyfriend lasted long. Any advice is greatly appriciated. Thanks in advance!
-Laura

dmking12370 2004-10-05 03:24 (link)

Well when you say that he wants to last longer what is his average time currently? There are several methods that he can use. Have him jerk off just before you and him have sex. Also, he can employ a "start-stop" method (where he will stop as he gets close, then start up again when he doesnt feel close again). Finally, if you guys use condoms, you can try the desensitizing condoms. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	_joeyzlilbrat_ 2004-10-06 09:24 (link)
	there is but he has to have alot of self control tell him when he feels likes hes about to cum to slow do do it slow for a few mins n then speed up when ever my guy feels like hes bout to cum n i say no nat yet thats what he dose...hope it helps.. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	countrykiss 2004-10-07 01:13 (link)
	thanks alot i really appreciate it.. ill let you kno how it goes! (Reply to this) (Thread)

	hopelsslydvoted 2004-10-07 13:34 (link)
	A good thing to do would be for you to tease him. This works great because not only is it kind of a mimic of starting..then stopping to prolong the process, you teasing him alone could just make it that much more intense when he actually does cum. (Reply to this) (Thread)

best methods.... vitsfiend110984 2004-10-09 07:55 (link)

I'd go for the teasing (getting him hot, but not hot enough to cum), or the start stop. There is actually though a way for a guy to control it, sex and ejaculation is controlled not only through the physical, but also the mental, perhaps if he thought about something that is a complete turn off or yucky he would delay himself--becareful though he could kill his mood... Cleo~Patra (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

be_everything 2004-10-12 01:05 (link)

hi. i'm coming from SexTips.. but neither this or sexTips will let me post for some reason. but i want to know the best masturbation techniques out there.. other than shower-head (don't have one) , vibrator (also don't have one) , and under the faucet (doesn't get me anymore) this would mean so much to me.. i'm really getting lonlier when masturbation doesn't even work. ! lol (Reply to this) (Thread)

be_everything 2004-10-12 01:05 (link)

hi. i'm coming from SexTips.. but neither this or sexTips will let me post for some reason. but i want to know the best masturbation techniques out there.. other than shower-head (don't have one) , vibrator (also don't have one) , and under the faucet (doesn't get me anymore) this would mean so much to me.. i'm really getting lonlier when masturbation doesn't even work. ! lol (Reply to this) (Thread)

ruge_88 2004-11-11 12:13 (link)

this may seem a bit odd, but a good way for your boyfriend to last longer is for him to NOT think about what he's doing. a male friend of mine told me this. he was having sex for the first time, and didnt want the girl to know he was a virgin. so what he did was every time he felt he was about to cum, he thought about something nonsexual - sports, school, work, family - and he said it helped him to be able to perform longer. i hope this helps you. xox ica (Reply to this) (Thread)