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whats with the sex talk?
Yesterday I got sorta annoyed at Mike, I didn't really mean for it to happen though ._. I couldn't help it. He just gets under my skin sometimes with his questions, we were talking on msn, it lead to him asking me when was the last time I was over at puchiko's house. I told him friday. And the first question he asked was "so did you guys do anything?" refering to, if we did anything sexual. Thats the first question he always asks if he knows I have gone over ot her house -.-
I get rather tired of it, I don't like to feel like i'm an explotation, or some sort of masturbation material for him.
It's my personal life, I don't know why he expects me to tell him anything about it, if i want to say something I will. Surely sometimes perhaps i will say I kissed her, but I don't like speaking of anything really beyond that, its my own buisness.
I just don't like getting asked that question, i get it a lot from others, it seems as though they don't think that puchiko and I have a real relationship, that its solely based on sexual relations. Some even assume that her and I already had sex o.o; I just sorta have to sit there and go "what are you talking about? If we did have it, i certainly was not aware of it!" point is sex is not important to me. I love to cuddle and talk.
And I get annoyed with people who just seem overly into the sex part, as Mike does, partically everytime he sees his girlfriend they have sex, really thats not bad for them at least, but I mean why must you boast about it? Its the first thing he will mention to me after he gets back from her place.. why do i care? He seems so proud of that fact all the time, I just wonder how much of a relationship they have, he seems to put to much emphasis on the sexual part of the relationship, as well as gives me uneccessary details about him and her, that should just be private with them.
Its fine for some, who are comfortable with expressing their pirvate lives.. but I mean you should at least express it to someone who does the same, and is comfortable with it, not with those you know that really rather not hear about it, and ask things from those who you know just won't say anything.
Or am I just being the stupid one?
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