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BROKEN ENGAGEMENTS, BROKEN HEARTS Reported By: Grace Weddings can be such a sacred occasion for two people in love. Most couples that are together look forward to the prospect of marriage. When you get the proposal from your significant other you think about how wonderful the person is and incredible it feels to be engaged. You look forward to a future together and the prospect of growing old together. Being engaged for the first time has it's importance, and when it's call off the couples are left devastated. Such is the story for two couples Christina Aguilera and Orlando Bloom along with Eliza Dushku and James Marsters. Christina Aguilera and Orlando Bloom. On the outside Chrissy and Orlando were seen as this happy couple. After some time together they were engaged and in love. The happiness, however didn't last long, because of a certain turn of event the wedding was called off. Apparently it seems a third party was involved which cause some trust issues. It appears that Orlando Bloom took a shower with Ginger Reyes of the Halo Friendlies, and when the issue was realized by Chrissy she felt that she couldn't trust her emotions with him. I had a chance to speak with Chrissy herself and when asked about the wedding being canceled she stated that "well, things happened, and right now is just not the time for him and I to get married. He hurt me deeply, and I am just trying to decide whether to forgive him or not. I mean I love him and all, I care about him, but I don't know if I can take him back for what he did." I can understand her reasoning, and I respect that. She does believe that "he means well," She does, however states " I know he truly deeply loves me, but he messed up. " Yes, Orlando Bloom did mess up, but wouldn't you think it's rather odd he took a shower with another woman other than his fiance? Why would anyone want to do such a thing with someone else? With that being said questions like that must have been going though her mind. Chrissy does report though that if they were going to get together again and get past the incident they would "definitely taking things one step at a time. I think the engagement will be broken off just because I think he will have to earn back my trust. I really don't know if we will get back together though at this point. I mean I keep my options open, but it all depends. But yes, one step at a time is the way to go." Orlando agrees with that too. When I spoke with him he basically felt the same way. Who knows what will happen now between them. Only time will tell from here what's in store for them. Can anything be salvaged from this such as a friendship or something more? The answer to that is left to them to define. Eliza Dushku and James Marsters What started as a friendship turned into heartache. Eliza Dushku and James Marsters met 5 years ago on the set of the television show Buffy. During the show they became the best of friends and have kept in touch while she was off to do movies such as Bring it on, Jay and Silent Bob, and The New Guy. It was during her breaks from the movie that she returned to the Buffy set. As time passed the friendship continued on, and when the Buffy television series was over they kept in touch as much as possible because they valued their friendship. It was during their time in New York that they spent together that they both realized that they had feelings for each other. From there they got together, and a few days after her Wrong Turn premiere he proposed to her on the cliffs overlooking Los Angeles and just like that they were happily engaged. The engagement was somewhat secretive at first, but it was later revealed little by little. Sources say she asked our very own Mandy Moore to be her maid of honor. It was said that some time after the engagement James became busy with his hectic schedule. She was mostly left to handle business until he got back. She then began starting the production of Tru Calling which is the television show that she's staring in. It's believe that while away James Marsters was engaging in sexual acts with a friend of hers. Sources report when Eliza heard that he had in fact cheated she threw the wedding ring back at him with such rage. With his sexual acts, that basically ended the wedding plans right there. It's confirmed, however that his reasoning was due to the fact that he states she hasn't been around. You would think he'd have a better excuse than that. For him to betray a trust like that surely can't be taken lightly. Trust in a relationship is such a precious thing. When you know someone for 5 years and they betray that trust it cuts pretty deep. With their relationship I don't think a friendship can be salvaged from this. James must have thought that he could get away with it. People who cheat can't possibly believe that they'll get away with it for long because one way or another the significant other will find out , and when they do find out the consequences can be dire. Now it's been said that "best friends make the best lovers" well, what happens when that's jeopardized because someone cheated? What do they become? Can anything truly ever be the same again? Post a comment in response: |
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