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[Written by a guy. After years of experience.] 1. Whatever you do, don't just show up at a girls house... they run around in their underwear just like we do 2. Don't cheat on them. It may seem foolproof, but girls tell each other everything about everything. Trust me, they WILL find out and you will be mud 3. Beware of every single male relative and all guy friends. Any of them would kick your ass at the drop of a hat, and a lot of them wouldn't even wait for the damn hat 4. Never miss an opportunity to tell them they're beautiful 5. Don't refuse to kiss in front of your friends. If they laugh at you, it's because they're jealous 6. If they slap you hard, you deserved it 7. Don't be afraid to touch them if you want to. If they're going out with you in the first place, it's because they like being in your arms 8. If you don't sleep with them, do not tell your friends that you did 9. If you DO sleep with them, don't tell your friends that you did 10. You can be dirty minded in private, really... most of them are not offended by it... 11. Not all of them eat like birds, a lot of them can eat like whales 12. Most of them don't mind paying half of everything, but they do discuss these things with their friends. Realize that if you make your girlfriend pay half all the time, everyone will know about it and your friends will know you're a cheapskate 13. Do you honestly need all your money that much? Be a man, pay all the time 14. Every girl should eventually get three things from her boyfriend- a stuffed animal, one of his sweatshirts, and a really pretty ring. Even if it's not a serious relationship 15. Make sure she gets home safely as often as you can. If you're dropping her off, walk her to the door. If you aren't dropping her off, call to be sure she's home safely 16. If a guy is bothering her, it is your right to kick the shit out of him 17. If you're talking to a female friend of yours, pull your girlfriend closer 18. Never, ever slap her, even if it's just in a joking way. Even if she swats you first, and says, "Oh, you're so dumb" or something, never make any gestures back 19. Go to a chick flick once in a while. She doesn't care whether you enjoy it or not, it just matters that you went 20. You're dead meat if you can't get along with their pets, parents and best friends. Be prince charming to their friends, Mr. Polite to their parents, and make sure to be nice to their animals 21. Don't flirt with their moms...that's just freaky 22. Don't be freaked out by PMS. It's not gross, and it really does make them feel like shit, so be understanding 23. If you don't like the way they drive, you do it 24. If you're officially dating, and you're introducing her to your friends, you'd better damn well introduce her as your girlfriend 25. Don't stress where you go for every date. They really only want to be with you 26. If they complain that something hurts, rub it for them without being asked 27. Girls are fragile. Even if you're play fighting/wrestling, be very gentle 28. Memorize their birthdays. You forget her birthday and you're basically screwed for life 29. Don't marinade in cologne 30. Don't give her something stupid for her birthday or Christmas or Valentine's day. It doesn't have to be expensive, but it has to be meaningful. Jewellery is always nice 31. If you think the relationship isn't going to last, don't wait to find out. It will only hurt you more if you draw it out 32. After you've been dating for a while, realize that they really have started to trust you. When you have a girlfriend who truly trusts you, you have a lot more responsibility, privilege and control than you would think. Be careful with it, most guys would kill for that kind of power, and it can be lost in a nanosecond Post a comment in response: |
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