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well like i said, i am making this my "gus' journal... because seriously, i dont want to bitch all the time.
i was talking to my pal dereck online about the situation at hand, and well... this is what he had to say....
"So, basicly, you're staying with this guy, despite the fact that he may be gay, and he's hot for his ex, because you don't want to be alone. Is that right? Plus he doesn't hit you, I believe you said. I'll tell you honestly that is no reason to be in a relationship. Because I would not be mean to you. Sarcastic, yes, mean, no. You think breaking up is the best idea, but you can't because you don't want him to see you as a bitch. Do you honestly think your breaking up with him would break his heart? Doesn't sound like it to me. But to be with you, to be loved by you, I hope you know how much I or anyone else, would appreciate the opportunity. It looks like you'd sacrifice your happiness for the illusion of his love."
wow. i was speechless when i read that. no one has ever broken it down to a 't'
DereckMcF: What is the ultimate goal of a relationship?
No ONION 4 u: i dont even know anymore
DereckMcF: I'll tell you.
The ultimate goal of a relationship is to discover if this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Is he that person?
No ONION 4 u: not at all, i suppose
DereckMcF: That's how you know if it's working or not.
DereckMcF: I know this is hard, but the longer you stay, the more of your life you waste and the more alone you'll feel, in the end.
this guy is too insightful for his own good.
gus, i still adore everything you do. you're robably the only person who i will ever let read this. ((robably isnt a real word, just so you know. dont moedl grammar after me))
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