I don't know what to do for him. He doesn't want my reassurances. Maybe he didn't hear anything about the landscaping job and is upset about that? I can't force him to be positive, but a little positivity is obviously what he needs. I tell him I believe in him. I do. But apparently it doesn't matter to him. I guess all I can do is be here for him. I can't change his mind for him and magically poof him into being confident about his future. I wish I could do something, anything, that would make him cheer up a bit. He doesn't seem to want my cheering up for now though...
Yeah, I don't know what's going on in your brain. No one can get into anyone else's brain. It doesn't work like that. I frequently have very little idea what's going on with you, because the minute I reach out to help, you draw back and tell me I can't possibly understand. And maybe I can't. Because I like myself too much to think self-destructive thoughts. And because I care enough about the people around me not to worry myself to the point that I worry them.
And "The more I try, the more I mess it up"? What does that mean? I sure don't know about any recent mess-ups. Maybe you've been solving your problems by taking mafia hit jobs and you didn't tell me?
AAAAAAARGH!
(Read comments)
|
