Lemmontart (lemmontart) wrote, @ 2009-05-04 22:03:00

I swear I have spent the last two days doing what I vowed never to do again; procrastinating over a man. Yes, you guessed correctly, that person is TP. I have a feeling I have scared him off though, as Greek guys are notorious for needing to be in control, and dont like it when a girl takes the initiative to ask them out - even in a jokey way as I did to TP! I sent a message out to all my fellow students yesterday about the impending ball, and reminding them to buy tickets. TP messaged me back to inform me that he would be in Scotland and so would not be able to attend. I was dissapointed but in a good mood so I jokingly wrote back:

'aaahhhhh thats a shame, I was going to ask you to be my date and everything! lol you wll be missing a good night :('

I was expecting some jokey reply back, on par with our normal conversations, but instead i got this:

':S im sorry'

eh? Is he actually sincerely sorry for not being able to be my date or just saying hes sorry cos he doesnt want to tell me straight that he is not interested? So after much procrastination and consulting Bants, we decided that it was down to his Greek ego and not feeling in control of the situation. I have now severed all ties with him. The ball is in his court. If he wants to get in touch, then he knows how. I hope we still remain friends as I am still making my plans to move to Cyprus, and I would be upset if I lost him as a friend.

Went over to Madames today for a rundown with Mistress of what actually happened on friday night. Madame is still with him, claiming that she loves him, but me and Mistress just dont understand this. He is sleazy, slimy, nasty, and threatening. She can and should do so much better than him, but he is controlling and has such a hold over her, she is not herself anymore. We are at our wits end, obviously we want to support her, but she has to help herself and getaway from that man.

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