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In a conversation with a good friend recently I mentioned two things. The first of these things evoked his surprise, the second of these things evoked his sympathy. The second thing I said is that I often offer up my opinion feeling like it doesn't really matter to my friends around me. This is something that I realised cuts both ways. I keep from stating my opinion a lot of the time because I feel like the visceral reactions I give aren't helpful, and that more and more, people don't want to hear what I really think, so instead I peck around the edges of expression. This has led to some awfully timid writing and thought of late, where I would delete something as I started it, thinking Someone I know likes this movie. They will probably disregard my opinion because it disagrees with them. They probably will be upset at me for my opinion. More and more I find that I put a lot of effort into creating a review, then for the fear of negative reactions, or worse, no reactions, delete it. The first thing I said is that I didn't like Wall-E. He was surprised to find this out because I recommended he and his now-girlfriend see it, because I was certain they would like it. It led to the startling revelation that just because I don't like something, doesn't mean I don't see what merits it has. The idea that I can criticize something not just based on my emotional response and make a meaningful suggestion based on what I saw. I could tell the way the themes of Wall-E would play into what he would enjoy. I could tell its sweetness and its lightness made it a good date movie for nerds, one of whom is an astrophysicist, the other of whom imports games from Japan. I had no need to enjoy the movie myself to recognise what was good in it. I just didn't like it. Once I sat back and considered what I had done in this statement, I wound up realising that if I make someone sad because they don't like my opinion of something they liked, then they need to consider dealing with it themselves. I'm not a jerk. I just didn't like a movie. I don't make fun of movies because I want to make those who like the movies feel bad. My negative reaction to movies tend to run in three broad strokes: Because, fuck it, I like some movies and I don't hate everything. If I can't get discussion and interest, I might as well try surprise and indignation at inappropriate quiz protocols! (Hopefully coming soon: Reviews of each) Post a comment in response: |
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