j. and i had a really good talk last night. very honest, very direct, very much so an open heart to heart. i really enjoy that i can have this kind of conversation with him and that we are at that level in our relationships where we are comfortable with each other to know that we can be 100% honest. i think that's something to strive for in every relationship.
i'm not sure where it really leave us except in this gray area where we are well, an extension of the other person's life. we all hang out in different circles but it is nice to know that we can come back to each other.
i always thought i could never marry j. but i know that whomever i do marry, i want to be able to have that same level of honesty and open communications that i think really are the stuff of GREAT marriages and partnerships.