Update (mid-June 2009): I'm now separated from my wife, for reasons that have nothing to do with the arrangement described below. Since separating, I've started a new relationship with a woman I met on a different dating site. The new relationship is exclusive, so I'm off the market, and this profile is only here so that people who know me on this site can contact me if they wish.
Looks: A [long, censored, because I'm still using this part] description: I'm [tall], about [slender] pounds, with [censored] eyes, [censored] hair, and glasses. I look [much more censored].
Personality: [censored], it's obvious that I'm interested in sex. I write [much more censored].
I am a big movie fan, [censored]. I'm also politically active, [censored].
Headline: What does "seasonally seeking sex" mean? It doesn't mean exactly what it says; I'm always seeking sex. But most of the time, I'm only seeking it in one place, and this site is not that place. But for a few weeks at a time, usually in winter and summer, I'm available.
The reason is that I'm married, and we're exclusive any time we're together. We're together most of the time, and I'm off the market except for her. But when she's traveling and I'm home, or I'm traveling and she's home, we're open for play time. When we're together again, we're exclusive again. We'll share our tales of lust (if any), maybe re-enact them together, but names are off limits. The no-names policy is our jealousy-prevention plan.
[censored] Condoms are obvious, [censored].
May people consider any sex outside a marriage to be cheating. But that's not our agreement. For us it's only cheating if we were to fool around at a time when we're supposed to be exclusive.
Update (mid-January): As anticipated in "limited time offer" below, I'm back to exclusive status. In view of that, I've switched my "I am looking for" line from "Intimate Encounter" to "Talk/E-mail". I also switched my headline from "seasonally seeking sex" to "seeking something", because I haven't yet thought of a better alliteration for a replacement headline during the "off-season".
As indicated with the "Talk/E-mail" setting, I welcome any sort of pleasant communications. And I'll still appreciate any invitations to intimate encounters. For one thing, I'd be flattered. For another, my answer might be "yes, with conditions." What conditions? The first one is that my wife and I continue our open-while-apart arrangement. That's likely, but not a sure thing. The second is that anyone who wants to play with me doesn't mind waiting until the next time we're open, which isn't likely before summer. When I know when we'll be open again, I'll switch the "looking for" back.
Limited time offer: I will probably be back to exclusive status after the first week of 2009. I'll try to reply to contacts after that, but any in-person contact will have to be non-intimate in nature. If we adjust our agreement, I'll adjust this profile accordingly.
Wish list: So, what friend would I like when I'm open? [long list censored]
Friends: What about the friends side of the friends-with-benefits arrangement? That's harder to describe, particularly after writing all of the above. We could have meals together, go to movies and discuss their deeper meaning or plot holes afterward, talk politics, discuss all the foolish things we've done in the past in pursuit of sex, and anything else friends do together.
