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There is two kinds of players in the game of wanting to be wanted(Sometimes u can call this love, romance, or whatever u want to go by.) The defensive players. They are usually on a quest to find happines and serenity. They play their game safe because their only objective is to not to let the other potential players and playettes hurt them as they try to maintain their relationships. They always take the necessary steps to make sure that the person that they are in a relationship with is not pulling one on them. Because defensive players can not be loners and love being with other folks almost all the time their attitudes towards comprimising to continue a relationship is a positive one. The second type of players are the offensive ones who prefer to operate like a bee. Only interested in extracting the honey(Sex or other thrills from the relationship game aka the flower)from the flower and move on to a new honey provider. They usually are lot more aggresive then the defensive players. The principles they follow in the process to extract what they are addicted to consists of a very flexible approach. Cuz most of the time they are the exact opposite of the good guys who usually are willing let themselves be hurt knowing if they bend on their principles their cared ones will be effected adversely. Where as the offensive player eats, sleeps, and lives with lies. Content with extracting narcissist pleasures out of life without any concern regarding the colleteral damage it might cause in the process. We all play the game to a degree. Offensive and the defensive players I mentioned above represent the radical ends of the games spectrum. I was mostly in the middle of the spectrum in my 27 years. Sometimes tilting towards the one of the other end depending on the curve balls life kept throwing at me. But now when I look back at what I have experienced I am realizing in order for me to be a full person(And a better story teller). I need to experience what true/pure love is all about. I dont even know if it exists but I sure as hell am gonna look for it and try to live it to the fullest if I can get my hands on it. Interestingly enough for the first time in my life I think I am falling for someone who also is falling for me. When I think of the pure love I want to have I do not want to think about any buts or ifs. There should not be any conditions to it besides the attributes we look for in our ideal mate which helps us determine if we will be involved with this person or not at first place. But once u are past that stage, the idea of the playing the game defensively(Not even gonna mention the offensive) should not even be an issue. It is not a financial plan where you are trying to even out yer books hoping to show profit. All you have to do is be honest yourself about yer feelings and most importantly be honest to him or her. Wanting to say the words but not being able to because you might end up getting hurt is almost like saying I want to put down the best movie complex human kind has ever seen right here right now but I want to build it without investing a dime. That sometimes bitter sometimes sweet hurting cause you love someone is a price I am willing to pay. Even if at the end what I had with her may vanish into oblivion after inflicting never before seen giga hurt of unquantifyable proportions on me. P.S: Yes I have been hurt. Hurt really bad in the past. Post a comment in response: |
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