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The girl I'm looking for.
The events of the last few days have had me thinking about who I want to be with, the kind of lady I wanted to date. Since I never seem to be able to pick a girl I have a hope in the nine hells of making it work with I'm going to write this down now so that I don't forget.
1. I'm only dating awakened people from now on. Someone who has seen past what’s around them, someone who knows what they are seeing is but one layer in existence.
2. I want someone who will challange me and push me to be my best. I want someone who will push me to become better then I am.
3. I don't mind criticism so long as it is not in public. I try to exude an aura of confidence; I don't like to lose face in front of others.
4. She has to have a dark streak in her...well I guess everyone has a dark streak in them but this person has to be accepting of it as part of her life.
5. She has to recognize her own personal beauty. I'm tired of women thinking that they are not beautiful, when they miss the fact that all women are beautiful in their own unique way,
6. Everyone comes to a relationship with baggage, but I refuse to put up with someone that believes a relationship is all about working through their problems. The relationship is for solving our mutual problems together and becoming closer from the sharing.
7. Must have a healthy view of sex. The women I have dated that viewed sex through what the Catholic Church teaches have always driven me right up the bend. As a Wiccan I view sex as a beautiful thing, but things of beauty do not remain beautiful is they are never seen. It is in our nature to make love to those we consider our mates. To not obey our natural desires is to lose what it means to be human.
8. Accepting of my religion. I'm a Wiccan; as such I follow the teachings of my religion as I know them. If you believe that we should be burned at the stake or some such nonsense then go home. I have no wish to be with you.
9. If you want something, tell me. If you don't tell me that to. Man cannot improve without input. This statement works on almost all levels of a relationship.
10. If you lie to me, don't let me find out you've lied to me. This also works on all levels of a relationship.
11. Don't ask me to commit to you. If we are in the future going to commit to each other it will happen without having to bring it up. Some things are best left unsaid; they are more magical that way.
12. It won’t bother me if you see other people, just don't talk about them or let me see it.
13. If you want me, peruse me. I can be flaky it's a fault of mine (yes I am working on it.) So call me, I dislike being the pursuer all the time.
14. Love me, love my obsessions.
15. Finally and I can’t say this enough, once we break up know that it's a permeate thing. I never get back together with someone I broke up with, ever.
Well that’s everything you will ever need to be with me. If I haven’t scared you off by now, give me a ring. I promise you a love you will never forget.
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