aseret in wonderland (blue_85) wrote, @ 2007-11-28 23:51:00

Call me unpredictable
My mouth literally dropped open three times while I was watching "Heroes" today. Boy, it's like a psychologist's wet dream, even more so than "Lost" I would say. Speaking of psychology, I've pinpointed a trait of mine (like the last blog entry with language) which manifests in different ways. Ah yes, AMBIVALENCE how you rule my life, making me:

1. Indecisive
If this was a disease, I would have infected half the population by now. One friend claims I have influenced her anyway. When it comes to lunch or shopping or anything, I tend to hesitate over it, wondering which option to go with, weighing pros and cons for a long time. Yeah, there are times when I make quick, firm decisions, but most times I deliberate or just waver around being unsure until someone pushes me into it. I usually end up regretting my choices, sigh. I shouldn't go into business it seems... I wouldn't be cut out for it.

2. Accepting
I try not to be judgmental, I really do. I also don't believe in the power of first impressions. I've been proved wrong too many times for me to accept things as gospel straight away. This means that a friend could come up to me and confess that they're secretly a crossdresser or bisexual or something else confronting and out-of-character for them, and I wouldn't disparage them at all. I might not understand why, but I would still support them and accept them for who they are. I hate people coming to snap judgements about me, dismissing something as negative without hearing more - I wouldn't do the same to others.

3. Noncommital
As Ugly Betty from work said, I have no strong opinions, not really. There are obviously things that I am more inclined to believe than others, but few things that I would argue vehemently for (aside from the issue of animal cruelty). I can be swayed to consider either side, to favour one side or the other. There goes my dream of being a debate adjudicator :P

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