No one owns the world
All I want right now is something simple, peaceful, no drama. I want to spend quality time with my girlfriend, have an intimate connection, and be happy. But you know what makes it more complicated? Ex-girlfriends. They are a bitch to deal with, especially in this case. I have a girlfriend who is amazing in almost every aspect, but with a past. A long complicated one. And here i get a fucking email with accusations left right and centre from guess who. You know, it bothers me to know people get a kick out of coming off as though they own the world and everyone in it. I don't know everything and everyone, even ones I've known for a long time, but it is easy to pinpoint certain patterns in behaviour in some people. And the last thing I need is someone with a vast amount of insecurities and instability trying to hide it with domineering threats, an "I don't give a shit" attititde, and a hassle in my life. She is not threat to me, on the contrary to what people may think. The only thing I am worried about is her barging in on my gf's life, when she really doesn't need that drama. And you know what, it's absolutely fair for me not to assume what went on in their past relationship, because I don't know the details. But along with many other people, I know that their were things said and done that just ain't healthy. I treat my gf with respect, and I would never hurt her, physically and especially verbally. She doesn't need that, and she doesn't need her ex toying with her life constantly reminding her of the past. Everyone has good times in relationships, but I am concerned about the bad ones, and no one needs to be reminded of those. On a good note, things are pretty good with me. Got a new gf, an cozy apartment to myself, school across the street, a job that is great, friends I have been reuniting with, and an pretty good overall sense of self worth. I'm keeping it real right now.