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come away with me to our secret place, know one will see we are all alone
Everyone says that there's got to be 100% trust in a relationship, but what about every thing else a relationship needs? To trust someone a 100% means that the person you are with is faultless. WAKE UP PEOPLE. No one is perfect. By trusting someone that much, it's bound to be devastating when something bad happens. People make mistakes. People lie. It happens.
Take a look at the subject: Relationship= trust+commitment+communication+the ability to accept fault in your other half+forgiveness. There's 5 things that equal that 100% relationship. Each thing is 20%. Yes, that doesn't seem like a lot, but with everything has to work together. With one of those missing, or lacking, how would you define your relationship?
Commitment is pretty obvious, so I won't touch that.
Communication is a pretty needy thing to. It's not just talking. Listen too. Really listen. Question things that are unclear to you. Do not assume your other half understands everything because it's not going to happen like that. That's when miscommunication starts and has a snowball effect.
The ability to accept fault ...come on now. Pretty self explanatory.
Forgiveness is within all relationships too, especially when you care about someone so much that they make you happy. If something happens that you don't like, don't run. Find out what/why whatever happened, happened. It's too easy to give up, but not many people are willing to fight. So what if it's some horrible ordeal, at least you understand and didn't go jumping to some conclusion.
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